The Baddest Bitch in the Building

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Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discuss how to channel it productively. Unresolved anger turns into resentment, hatred, and psychosomatic symptoms like digestive issues and migraines.

And guess what – we’re not contestants in the Suffering Olympics like Victimella is. So let’s put our female rage to work.

Channel rage into creativity (6:14)
Reconnect with your ancestors (10:25)
Be so grateful it’s cringe (12:37)
Recalibrate the algorithm of your life (16:29)
Find a physical release (21:05)
Understand the law of inversion (22:33)
Be a bigger bitch than before (27:11)

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Here’s Shelby K Morrison’s podcast, The Serpent Signal, I mentioned.

🎶 Music credit: Mozart - Requiem in D minor - K. 626 IIIf Lacrimosa © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr.
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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What people show you isn't their true selves, it's their defence mechanisms. And if you look just beneath the surface, you'll see exactly what they're trying to hide. In fact, if you look deep enough, you might even see yourself.

In this episode, I'll discuss:

Why we need to stop being gullible & taking things at face value
How to see beneath the empty shell of someone's big ego
Why certain people have big egos to begin with (it's not why you think)
How to spot people's inversion patterns (aka what they're hiding)
4 steps to deal with someone who's got a big ego

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a tool to help women in their relationships.

That's because they were created by Baptist preacher Gary Chapman, a man who's trained in Biblical counselling. His background involves no scientific or psychological training. The crazy thing is, that isn't even the most problematic part.

I read Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, and in this episode I critically dissect his theory from a feminist lens in a way no one's ever done before. I'll discuss:
The conservative & misogynistic origins of Biblical counselling
How marriage counselling originated as a form of eugenics (& how this agenda found its way into the church)
The sexist examples Chapman uses in his book, which shatter his credibility
The HUGE problem with Chapman's sample (hint: they're all white, Christian, traditional couples)
How the love languages map out PERFECTLY to the 5 points of Calvinism (a control-based branch of Protestantism that forms the foundation of Biblical counselling)
Whether there's a better alternative to the love languages

Sources:
Awful '50s Marriage Advice Shows What Our Mothers And Grandmothers Were Up Against
The Biblical Counselling Movement
The “love languages” are a hoax by a Southern Baptist pastor
The Surprising History of Marriage Counselling

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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Tomorrow is my 28th birthday & I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging.
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security.

It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and early capitalism needed quiet, subservient women in order to function.

In this episode, we'll discuss:
Why patriarchy & controlling men are so scared of female friendships
The violent history of silencing women
How men continue to silence women
The role of gossip in human evolution
How to reclaim gossip in your life starting today

Sources:
Gossip in Evolutionary Perspective
The Feminist Origins Of Gossip
The scandalous origins of gossip
Witches, Witch-Hunting, and Women
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off
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