Why Do We Do That?

In this episode, Ryan Wexelblatt shares insights on behavioral interventions for children with ADHD, focusing on practical strategies for parents to support emotional regulation, motivation, and behavior management both at home and outside. Discover how understanding the ADHD brain can transform parenting approaches and foster better outcomes for kids.

keywords
ADHD, parenting, behavioral interventions, emotional regulation, executive functioning, motivation, child development, ADHD strategies
key topics
ADHD and executive functioning delays
Cognitive flexibility and emotional regulation
Behavioral interventions and scaffolding
Managing disrespectful language and meltdowns
Creating structure and expectations for ADHD kids

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to ADHD Parenting Strategies
02:59 Meet Ryan Wexelblatt and his expertise
04:29 Understanding how ADHD brains differ from neurotypical brains
06:40 The role of cognitive flexibility in ADHD behavior
08:34 Emotional regulation challenges and solutions
09:25 Living in the moment and its impact on therapy
12:37 Internal dialogue and impulsivity in ADHD
13:39 Triggers of emotional outbursts in ADHD children
15:58 Negative attention and reinforcement of behaviors
18:31 Calmness and response strategies during meltdowns
20:10 Setting expectations and opportunities for self-correction
22:21 Disrespectful language and how to address it
32:26 Teaching accountability and repair after hurtful words
36:45 Managing emotional blackmail and severe behaviors
40:03 Impulsivity and behavior outside the home
43:32 Supporting motivation and routine at home
53:30 Key takeaways for parents of ADHD children

guest links
Website - https://adhddude.com
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/ADHDDudeRyanWexelblattLCSW

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Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work.

Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter