HATE TO BREAK IT TO YA with Jamie Kennedy

In this solo episode of Hate To Break It To Ya, I get into everything that went down at the Scream 30th Anniversary panel at Midsummer Night Scream in Long Beach — one of the most elaborately produced con panels I've ever been part of, with a full union crew, stage set, music cues, and close to 2,000 people in the room. It was incredible. But something happened that I couldn't let slide, and I want to break it down honestly and respectfully for anyone who's ever been to a con, worked a con, or wondered what it's actually like on our side of the table.

The big story making the rounds involves a fan who aired a grievance at Matthew — publicly, on stage — over an interaction from a few years back. I wasn't there for the original exchange, but I heard the whole thing afterward, and I want to give you the full picture: the fan's theory (which was actually kind of fascinating, connecting Mad Love to Scream through character motivation), what I think really happened in that signing line, and why I pulled the guy aside, talked it out, and got him to a better place. This is a conversation about parasocial relationships, expectations, and what it means to give someone power over your emotional state. I also had my own version of this play out — a woman reached over from the bathroom line and tried to get a free ChapStick signing, I said there's a process, and somehow that made me a D-bag on the internet. I'm going to explain exactly why that's wrong, and I'm going to do it without apology.

I also get into the Famke Janssen yardstick story that's been circulating — a fan paid $80, got told to stay three feet back, and posted about it. I give both sides. And then there's the Nicolas Cage first-con story, which I heard through the circuit and which is genuinely one of the most human things I've come across in a long time. I close out with a story about a fan named Jess the Mess — who did everything right, earned real access, and ended up getting me Dunkin' Donuts coffee the morning after the con in exchange for a picture she accidentally left at my table. That's the kind of experience this can be when both sides show up right.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 – Intro: Midsummer Night Scream & the Scream 30th Anniversary Panel

00:02:37 – Matthew's Incident: The Fan Who Aired a Grievance on Stage

00:05:22 – Breaking Down the Mad Love / Scream Fan Theory

00:08:06 – Defending Matthew: What It's Actually Like to Meet 5,000 People in a Weekend

00:11:46 – Jamie Talks the Fan Down & What Good Communication Looks Like

00:16:20 – ChapStick Gate: Why I'm Apparently a D-Bag

00:19:26 – Con Economics 101: How the Table System Actually Works

00:27:31 – Both Sides: Celebrities Aren't Always Right Either

00:34:53 – The Famke Janssen Yardstick Story

00:38:49 – Nicolas Cage's First Con & the Little Girl Who Changed Everything

00:41:51 – Jess the Mess: A Fan Who Got It Right

00:45:47 – Outro: Like, Subscribe & Keep the Pod Alive

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This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Drea de Matteo — Emmy-winning actress, Queens native, Sopranos icon, and one of the most unexpectedly outspoken voices to come out of the COVID era — and the conversation went everywhere. Drea didn't come in with talking points. She came in with a story, and it's a wild one: a foreclosure notice, a flooded house, a lien she needed to pay off fast, and a decision that made headlines around the world.

We got into all of it — how refusing the vaccine cost her her agent, her manager, and a string of acting jobs she could have taken; how she went from voting for Biden to campaigning for RFK Jr. to watching the whole political landscape shift under her feet; and how a single bikini photo on OnlyFans paid off a $75,000 lien in 75 minutes. Drea breaks down exactly what was on that page, sets the record straight about her son Blackjack and the viral moment that blew up on social media, and explains why she sees the whole OnlyFans chapter less as a scandal and more as a middle finger to a system that dropped her without a phone call. We also talked about her Queens upbringing, her mother's world in the theater — Herbert Berghoff, Uta Hagen, the whole lineage — and how growing up inside that world made her the last person anyone expected to end up on a fan platform paying her own mortgage.

Drea is one of those people who is exactly who she seems like and also nothing like what you'd expect. She's got an Emmy from what is arguably the greatest TV show ever made, she's raising two kids in Laurel Canyon, she's got a t-shirt company, a podcast, and zero interest in playing the game the way the industry wants her to. I loved this conversation. She gave me everything.

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About Drea de Matteo:
Drea de Matteo is an American actress best known for playing Adriana La Cerva on HBO's The Sopranos, a role that earned her the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series in 2004. She has appeared in Joey, Sons of Anarchy, Desperate Housewives, and Shades of Blue, among many other film and television credits. Born and raised in Queens, New York, she is the daughter of a playwright and furniture manufacturer, and grew up in proximity to the HB Studio theater world through her mother's work with Herbert Berghoff and Uta Hagen. She has two children — daughter Alabama and son Blackjack, whose father is musician Shooter Jennings — and is the founder of the t-shirt and media brand UltraFree.

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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Cold Open: Coffee Stains & First Impressions
00:01:50 – Drea the Groupie: Music, Queens, and Rock and Roll Roots
00:06:55 – Growing Up in the Theater: HB Studio, Uta Hagen, and Hating It
00:13:55 – Sopranos, Staying in Character, and Not Wanting to Be Famous
00:15:55 – COVID Changed Everything: From Checked Out to Wide Awake
00:20:30 – OnlyFans Goes Viral: How It Started and Why
00:27:45 – Losing the Agent, Losing the Manager, and Self-Canceling
00:34:00 – Foreclosure, a Flooded House, and the Trip to Tahoe
00:42:05 – OnlyFans Explained: The Bikini Photo, the Lien, and $75K in 75 Minutes
00:54:05 – Emmy on the Sopranos, Then OnlyFans: What the Industry Did
01:00:00 – Setting the Record Straight: Blackjack and the Viral Moment
01:07:55 – Kids, Social Media, and Living in GTA
01:13:45 – Hollywood, Independence, and Whether the Business Can Come Back
01:25:55 – Witch Hunts, Symbols, and Trying to Understand Everything
01:43:15 – Satanism, Secret Societies, and Participating Without Knowing
01:51:30 – UltraFree, the Podcast, and Wrapping Up

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This week on Hate To Break It To Ya, I dive into the release of Anthony Fauci's personal diary and why I think it's one of the most overlooked stories of the year. I walk through the entries that caught my attention, the Congressional testimony that followed, the debate surrounding his pardon, and why so many people still have no interest in revisiting what happened during the pandemic.

From there I revisit some of the moments that changed the way I looked at everything—from the Pineapple Hill protests to restaurants enforcing different rules for different people—and why I think those years permanently reshaped public trust.

Then things take an unexpected turn. We get into a California robotics company unveiling a goat-headed chainsaw centaur, Meta's newest smart glasses campaign that looks like it came straight out of They Live, and why I think we're moving into a future that deserves a lot more skepticism than it's getting.

Whether you agree with me or not, this episode is really about one question: what happens when people stop questioning the people they're told to trust?

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 – Intro: Best Golf Round of My Life00:01:19 – The Pandemic Was a Three-and-a-Half-Year War00:03:28 – Two Types of People: Telephone vs. Banana00:06:06 – The Cult of Closed-Mindedness00:07:06 – Fauci Takes the Fifth — 111 Times00:20:00 – Reading Fauci's Diary00:25:03 – Fame, Money, and Public Perception00:27:44 – Looking Back at Pandemic Policies00:28:52 – Gain of Function and the Lab Leak Debate00:35:52 – RFK Jr. and Questioning the Experts00:44:46 – Why I Almost Quit: My SNL Audition Story00:51:09 – The Fauci Diary Finally Goes Public00:55:15 – The Goat-Head Chainsaw Robot00:58:45 – Meta Glasses, They Live, and the Future01:01:04 – Patreon, Tour Dates & Final Thoughts

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This week on Hate To Break It To Ya, I just got back from Galaxy Con, and I'm feeling the effects. I talk about what it's really like working conventions, the fans who make it all worthwhile, the emotional drain that comes with being "on" all weekend, and why I'm starting to rethink how often I do them.

Then I get into something that's been happening right outside my front door in West Hollywood. In just a couple of weeks, multiple major water main breaks have hit the Los Angeles area, flooding streets, shutting down neighborhoods, and even causing water pressure issues miles away. I walk through what I've been seeing, give credit where it's due when repairs happen quickly, and ask the question that's been on my mind: are we simply watching decades-old infrastructure reach its breaking point, or is something bigger going on?

I also revisit the golf cart story and why taking responsibility still matters, even when it's uncomfortable. Somewhere along the way, I accidentally became the guy talking about local news—and honestly, I'm just reporting what I'm seeing.

00:00:00 – Intro: Just Back From Galaxy Con00:01:23 – The Emotional Reality of Working Conventions00:03:35 – Fan Types: The Good, the Sweet, and the Drive-Bys00:06:03 – No Break, No Hiding, No Time to Recharge00:09:28 – My Ideal Convention Schedule00:15:25 – Upcoming Shows and Maybe Slowing Down00:16:22 – The Hole in My Driveway and Where This Started00:17:53 – Water Main Break #1: Sunset Blvd Floods at 5 A.M.00:21:07 – Giving LADWP Credit for a Fast Repair00:25:03 – More Water Main Breaks Across Los Angeles00:30:02 – Anaheim Water Problems and Disneyland Disruptions00:33:37 – Old Infrastructure or Something More?00:34:05 – How Did I Become a Local News Podcast?00:42:30 – The Golf Cart Story and Taking Accountability

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This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Shannon Beador — twelve-year veteran of The Real Housewives of Orange County, one of Bravo's most recognizable faces, and a woman who has lived more on camera than most people do in a lifetime — and she did not hold back. We met through our mutual friend Jeff Lewis, and from the first time I saw her handle a room full of big personalities I knew she was the real deal. This conversation confirmed it.

We go deep on how Shannon ended up on RHOC in the first place — a casting number she found in a drawer, a closet with no windows, and an iPhone camera — and what twelve seasons of reality television actually does to a person. She walks me through the affair that unfolded the day after her very first day of filming, why she and her then-husband made the decision to talk about it openly on camera, and what it felt like to watch it all back six months later while the internet weighed in. We also get into the DUI — the real story, what was going on in her life that night, how she broke her nose and her arm, what she did the next morning, and why she chose a mental health facility over a traditional rehab. Then there's the $300,000 defamation lawsuit she won but still lost, the Quiet Woman restaurant drama that Kelly Dodd turned into a press cycle, the Heather McDonald video that got under Shannon's skin more than she wants to admit, and the full story of the golf cart incident at Kelly's Fourth of July party — including what Jamie thinks actually happened and why nobody is saying the obvious thing out loud.

Shannon is one of those people who is much funnier and much more self-aware than the villain edit would have you believe. She's been through a divorce, a DUI, a lawsuit, public humiliation, and a company that cost her everything — and she's sitting in a duplex in Corona Del Mar, single, happy, and genuinely at peace with herself for the first time. That's not nothing. That's actually the whole story.

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About Shannon Beador:

Shannon Storms Beador is a main cast member of The Real Housewives of Orange County, which she joined in Season 9 in 2014 and has appeared on for twelve consecutive seasons, currently airing Season 20 on Bravo. She also starred in Bravo's spin-off series Love Hotel. A Southern California native, Shannon attended USC and raised three daughters — Sophie, Stella, and Adeline — in Orange County. She previously founded and ran a supplements company and is known for her candid, unfiltered approach to filming her real life, including her divorce, her 2023 DUI, and her ongoing journey as a single woman navigating life after a long marriage.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 – Cold Open: Reality TV and Appearances

00:01:39 – RHOC Season 20 and 12 Years on the Show

00:05:46 – How Bravo Gatekeeps (and Why It's Outdated)

00:06:46 – How Shannon Got Cast: The Drawer, the Closet, the iPhone

00:08:13 – The Affair: What Happened and Why She Talked About It

00:14:04 – Live Shows with Vicki and How the Show Has Changed

00:20:29 – The DUI: The Real Story, the Crash, and the Aftermath

00:23:41 – Accountability, Mental Health, and Learning to Be Alone

00:29:31 – The Quiet Woman Restaurant Controversy

00:41:26 – The Golf Cart Incident at Kelly's Fourth of July Party

00:56:49 – The Johnny Carson Rule and Jeff Lewis Loyalty

01:00:26 – Kelly Dodd: The Hot-and-Cold Friendship

01:03:15 – The Heather McDonald Video and the $300K Defamation Suit

01:09:49 – Shannon's Storyline This Season and Life in Corona Del Mar

01:14:09 – Dating at 62, Being a Sapiosexual, and the Kissing Bandit

01:19:13 – The Mercedes Fight and Jamie's Apology

01:24:30 – Where to Watch RHOC Season 20

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