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- If you want to improve your interior design sales process, you need to understand what your prospective clients are thinking before they decide to hire you. Because loving your work and being ready to sign a contract are two very different things.
I talk to designers all the time who assume a client’s hesitation means their fee is too high, their portfolio isn’t strong enough, or something went wrong in the consultation. But what if there’s a whole lot more happening behind the scenes? I want you to look at your sales conversations from the other side of the table and get curious before you start making assumptions.
I recently wrapped up a launch for my Luxury Client Academy, and the experience reminded me of how much we can learn by paying attention to our own buying decisions. In this episode, I’m sharing how you can apply those lessons to your interior design business.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to communicate what matters to prospective clients instead of simply listing your services, credentials, and experience.
Why an enthusiastic inquiry doesn’t necessarily mean someone is ready to hire you, and the questions that can help you understand where they are in their decision-making process.
How to uncover what’s behind a client’s hesitation before assuming the problem is your fee, your portfolio, or your process.
Why questions about design fees and project costs are often reasonable requests for clarity, not automatic objections to your services.
How to use questions and concerns from past clients to make your sales process easier to understand for the next person.
Why silence, delayed responses, and a lack of engagement aren’t a pass-fail test of your talent or your business.
Remember, your job isn’t to drag everyone across the finish line. It’s to communicate clearly, listen, follow up appropriately, and help the right people feel confident about making a decision. Sometimes that decision is yes, sometimes it’s no, and sometimes it’s just not right now.
Related Resources
If you’re ready to look more closely at how prospective clients make decisions, these resources are a great next step.
When They Love You But Don't Book: https://pamela-durkin.com/marketing-by-design/when-they-love-you-but-dont-book/
The Art & Science of Selling: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F26Q_TfsqwQ
If you’re tired of chasing leads, talking people into your value, or saying yes to projects that make you question your life choices, Luxury Client Academy may be your next step.
It’s my private 1:1 coaching program for interior designers ready for better projects, higher fees, and less nonsense.
Inquire about coaching here>> https://pamela-durkin.com/contact-us/ - Before joining a coaching program, you need to know whether it will actually help you make better decisions in your interior design business—not just give you another pile of information.
If you’re considering the Luxury Client Academy, you probably have questions. Is this really different from another course? What if you already have a coach? Can you afford the investment? Where will you find the time? And maybe the bigger question underneath all of those: “Am I actually ready for this?”
I want to answer those questions honestly, because joining a nine-month coaching program is a real commitment. I’m not interested in convincing you that you need more information. I want you to think about whether you need help applying what you already know to the actual proposals, clients, pricing decisions, projects, and problems sitting in front of you.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why collecting more information can become its own form of procrastination—and why personalized support can help you turn information into decisions.
What to consider if you already have a business coach, including whether that person understands the specific ecosystem of an interior design business.
How to look beyond the cost of coaching and consider what undercharging, poor-fit projects, and missed purchasing opportunities may already be costing your business.
Why being busy doesn’t necessarily mean you need more capacity, and how 20 smaller projects can create a very different business than one full-scope project.
How to recognize whether “I’m not ready yet” is really about experience, clients, pricing, or the question underneath it all: “Do I belong in this room?”
Why qualification matters and how asking better questions earlier can help you stop taking projects you already suspect are a bad fit.
What actually changes when you have stronger processes, clearer decisions, and more confidence leading your business.
The Luxury Client Academy isn’t about becoming someone else’s version of a successful designer. We start where you are and work on what your business actually needs right now.
Related Resources
If you’re still wondering whether coaching is the right kind of support for you, this conversation is a natural next step.
Ep 121: Worried? Will the LCA work for you?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7v2vIAJrwI
If you’re tired of chasing leads, talking people into your value, or saying yes to projects that make you question your life choices, Luxury Client Academy may be your next step.
It’s my private 1:1 coaching program for interior designers ready for better projects, higher fees, and less nonsense.
Inquire about coaching here>> https://pamela-durkin.com/contact-us/ - Before chasing more clients, I want you to look at what’s already happening inside your interior design business. Because adding more work to a shaky foundation can make the problem worse.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How taking whatever shows up can leave you building a business around work you never wanted in the first place.
Why a full calendar does not automatically mean a profitable project mix, and how too many small projects can block better opportunities.
The difference between a fee being wrong and a fee simply feeling uncomfortable, and why you need to price the project instead of the fear of the price.
Why your designs can be custom while your business needs a repeatable process for pricing, communication, purchasing, scope, and delivery.
How stopping networking, follow-up, and visibility when you get busy creates the feast-or-famine boomerang later.
The five questions I want you asking before deciding that more clients are the answer.
The goal is not to stay busy. It’s to have enough of the right opportunities that you can choose the projects that fit, hold the fees that make sense, and protect the process that allows you to do your best work.
Related Resources
If you’re wondering whether you actually need more clients, or need to fix what’s happening underneath the inquiries, this is a natural next listen.
Ep 172: Do you really need more clients? [Try this first]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OM1VzNEEJOw
If you’re tired of chasing leads, talking people into your value, or saying yes to projects that make you question your life choices, Luxury Client Academy may be your next step.
It’s my private 1:1 coaching program for interior designers ready for better projects, higher fees, and less nonsense.
Inquire about coaching here>> https://pamela-durkin.com/contact-us/ - If you’re an interior designer who keeps hitting the same comfortable design fee, this episode is for you. I’m sharing Tina’s story of going from a $17,000 design fee ceiling to a $96,000 fee and the shift was not that she suddenly became five times better at design.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your historical design fee may not be relevant to the opportunity sitting in front of you.
What needs to be underneath a higher design fee, including time, talent, expertise, responsibility, value, and the financial impact on your business.
Why confidently communicating your value matters when a client starts asking hard questions about your fee.
How your own pricing mindset can become the biggest thing standing between you and a bigger opportunity.
Why a bigger fee does not automatically make a project a better fit and the questions I want you asking before you say yes.
How one breakthrough fee can change your reference point and expand what you believe is possible for your interior design business.
Related Resources
If you’re working through your own fee ceiling, these are natural next steps for thinking differently about pricing and the opportunities you choose.
Your Highest Design Fee Starts Before the Proposal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BcSfLsKWptE
Overcoming Fear Increasing Rates Designers: https://pamela-durkin.com/marketing-by-design/overcoming-fear-increasing-rates-designers/
If you’re tired of chasing leads, talking people into your value, or saying yes to projects that make you question your life choices, Luxury Client Academy may be your next step.
It’s my private 1:1 coaching program for interior designers ready for better projects, higher fees, and less nonsense.
Inquire about coaching here>> https://pamela-durkin.com/contact-us/ - If your interior design fees go down when you really want a project and shoot up when you’re hoping a client says no, the fee may not be the real problem.
I see designers shaving down fees because the project would look great in their portfolio or because they’re afraid the client will walk. Then, there’s the “make it worth my while” fee, hoping the project will disappear.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why lowering your design fee to win a project can perpetuate the false belief that you simply need more clients.
• How a suspiciously high fee can be an avoidance strategy.
• Why a bigger fees don't magically turn a bad-fit project into a good one.
• How to separate project fit from interior design fee
• The one question I want you to ask before you hit send.
Related Resources
If this episode hit a nerve, these are the natural next step for getting clearer about pricing and saying no without asking the fee to do the dirty work.
Blog: Pricing Process Power of No: https://pamela-durkin.com/marketing-by-design/pricing-process-power-of-no/
Podcast Ep 143: Pricing, Process & the Power of No: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00lGOKfpKcs
If you’re tired of chasing leads, talking people into your value, or saying yes to projects that make you question your life choices, Luxury Client Academy may be your next step.
It’s my private 1:1 coaching program for interior designers ready for better projects, higher fees, and less nonsense.
Inquire about coaching here>> https://pamela-durkin.com/contact-us/
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