CIA SPY: Spot Lies, Deception & Read Body Language in 3 sec! Red Flags Lily Allen & MOST Women Miss!
You ever watch a couple and feel your gut whisper, “Something’s not right here”… but you can’t quite explain why?
Homie, THIS is the episode that finally gives language to what your intuition already knows.
Former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante is back, and together we break down the viral Lily Allen & David Harbour house-tour video — frame by frame — to reveal the micro-expressions, distancing behaviors, passive-aggression, and emotional patterns that almost no one catches on the first watch.
This isn’t gossip. This is about giving YOU the tools to spot manipulation, insecurity, emotional withdrawal, and mismatch long before it ruins your confidence, drains your energy, or makes you dim your damn light.
Andrew exposes the real signals of discomfort, resentment, performative affection, sensory-driven conflict, and how small “jokes” can reveal massive cracks in a relationship. We go deep, from abandonment cues, to validation bids, to open-relationship dynamics, to the heartbreaking red carpet moments you absolutely must pay attention to.
If you’ve ever ignored your gut…
If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re “overreacting”…
If you’ve ever felt unseen or minimized by a partner…
This episode is your permission slip to trust what you see.
SHOWNOTES
“Everything Looks Fine… But It Isn’t” — The First Red Flags in the House Tour
Abandonment Jokes, Closed-Off Posture & the Cracks Beneath the Performance
Patterns vs. “It’s Just a Joke”: When Behavior Stops Being Cute
No Touch, No Warmth: Andrew’s Early Prediction About the Marriage
The “Couple Activities” Comment & the Micro-Expression That Says Everything
The Lyrics Reveal the Truth: Why She Never Wanted the House
The Red-Carpet Moment That Exposed Competition, Not Partnership
How Strong Women Get Broken Down: The Slow Burn of Manipulation
Millie Bobby Brown’s Interview: Eye Movements, Avoidance & What She Didn’t Say
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3 Warning Signs Before He Cheats—From a Man Who Did It | Laterras R. Whitfield PT 2 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal.
Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man.
This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too.
I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship.
Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment.
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Original air date: 12-14-2023
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3 Warning Signs Before He Cheats—From a Man Who Did It | Laterras R. Whitfield PT 1 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal.
Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man.
This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too.
I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship.
Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment.
For further insights on navigating the challenges and building strong, resilient partnerships check out Laterras' book, Dear Future Wifey: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Future-Wifey/dp/B08K58WDPT
Original air date: 12-13-2023
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Is Your Sanity At Stake? Dr. Ramani’s Top Tips to Spot and Stop a Narcissist! | Dr. Ramani (Fan Fav)
It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you’re dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER.
Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin’ sanity.
Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f
Original air date: 2-5-24
In this episode, we’re diving into:
Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them!
What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self.
Why it’s SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”.
And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist’s mind games because you can’t always see them coming…
So whether you’re in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together.
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No One’s Coming to Save You—Why You Must Own Your Health Journey | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. On this very personal episode of Heath Theory, Tom Bilyeu interviews the co-founder of Impact Theory (and his wife), Lisa Bilyeu. For years Lisa has suffered from catastrophic dysbiosis, and her battle with illness is actually the inspiration for Health Theory.
Now that her health is manageable, she is sharing the most important lessons she has learned.
In this episode, she explains why she needed to take total ownership of her health, how she dealt with shame and fear, why she has learned to use controlled experiments, and why it is so important to challenge accepted beliefs on health.
Original air date: 4-17-2023
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