Women of Impact

This is a fan fav episode. It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she’s on a frikin’ mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love!  Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it’s NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you’re ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver’s seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she’s on a frikin’ mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love!  Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it’s NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you’re ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver’s seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Part 2 of this unfiltered, in-depth conversation with Dr. Orion Taraban. After laying the psychological groundwork in Part 1, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Taraban dive even deeper, breaking down gendered attraction strategies, healthy relationship “marketing,” and why understanding the captain vs. passenger analogy could forever change the way you approach dating and love. In this segment, Dr. Taraban unpacks the mechanics of authentic vs. performative displays of competence, the profound importance of relationship “mission statements,” and why both partners should rigorously inspect what they’re signing up for before setting sail. The conversation doesn’t shy away from sticky subjects: sex, exclusivity, money, “testing” your partner, and how so many women mistake potential for reality. If you’re ready for raw, research-backed advice on navigating modern romance from a place of strength, you won’t want to miss this. In this episode: Dating Traps: Opposites, Attractions & Emotional Hangovers The Captain & Passenger Analogy: Building Versus Boarding the Relationship The Power of Mission Statements (and Why Every Couple Needs One) Women, Safety, and “Testing” in Early Relationships Sex, Boundaries, and the Dance of Intimacy Love-Bombing, Female Strategies, and the Reality of Transactional Dynamics Appearances, Authenticity, and Relationship “Marketing” Why You Must Inspect the Itinerary Before Committing Accepting People for Who They Are Versus “Changing” Them How to Tell If Their Promised “Destination” Is Real Reclaiming Power and Responsibility in Your Love Life Thank you to our sponsors:  Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of "Women of Impact," Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Orion Taraban, psychologist, YouTube creator, and author of the bestselling book "The Value of Others." Dr. Taraban brings a refreshingly candid — and sometimes controversial — perspective to the complex world of romantic relationships, power dynamics, and emotional safety. Together, they pull back the curtain on common traps women fall into, how to recognize manipulation (especially from narcissists or cluster B personalities), and the essential mindsets needed to reclaim your relationship power once and for all. Dr. Taraban and Lisa set the groundwork by tackling why no one can technically manipulate your emotions — unless you allow them to. This is essential listening for anyone looking to understand how to protect themselves while dating—or simply elevate their personal relationships to a new level of autonomy. In this episode: The Nature of Manipulation & Emotional Vulnerability Why “Poker Face” Tactics Matter for Safety Real-World Examples: DARVO & the Anatomy of Gaslighting The 10 Principles of Power: Who Really Holds the Cards? Women, Power, and the Unspoken Rules of Pursuit The Role of Optionality in Relationships Double Standards, Gendered Power, and Inequality Attraction, Fantasy, and the Dangers of Projecting Red Flags, Rationalizations & Why We Stay Cluster B Personalities and the Hallmarks of Narcissistic Abuse Thank you to our sponsors:  Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. New love is easy, staying in love is hard work (believe me!) Today, my homie, Dr. Nicole LePera is joining me for a relationship dive into the complexities that lead to 70% of couples never seeing their 1 year anniversary. Falling in love is a thrilling ride, but what happens when the adrenaline fades and reality sets in? That's where the majority of relationships hit a snag. Does your relationship feel more like a roller coaster than a peaceful journey? As fun as roller coasters are in the amusement park, you may be addicted to the highs and lows of toxic love, and that’s not fun or healthy in your grown up relationships. In this two-part episode, Dr. LePera shares valuable tips to help you identify if you're in an incompatible relationship and how to navigate through the emotional minefield. We also discuss why change can be as challenging as squeezing into skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner, and how to handle your emotional responses in a healthier way. “To make sure that our needs are met in a relationship, we have to be really clear on what they are and we have to be really clear on what we want…” -Nicole LePera If you're struggling with your relationship or just want to understand love better, this episode is a must-watch. So, hit that play button and make sure you catch part two with Nicole LePera Check out Nicole’s latest book, How to Be the Love You Seek: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/How-Love-You-Seek-Relationships/dp/0063267748⁠  Original air date: 11-29-2023 Follow Nicole LePera: Website: ⁠https://theholisticpsychologist.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TheHolisticPsychologist⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices