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Have you ever looked at a relationship and thought, “Surely this isn’t narcissism, he’s so sensitive”? Or wondered how narcissists can show up NOT as the obvious arrogant bad boys, but as gentle, emotionally tuned ‘soft boys’ who turn your world upside down? Oh, you’re NOT alone.

This episode is packed with the truth bombs you need to spot the real signs of narcissistic partners and understand the psychological traps that keep women stuck, confused, and questioning their reality. I’m joined by THE Dr. Ramani — psychologist, best-selling author, and the ultimate expert on narcissistic relationships.Today, she lays out the new faces of narcissism, teaches us the universal warning sign you can spot, and reveals the insidious behaviors that keep you feeling guilty and stuck. For every woman who feels crazy because “no one else sees it”—this is your permission slip to trust yourself.

SHOWNOTES

The Soft Boy Trap: Why ‘Sensitive’ Men Can Still Be Narcissists

Vulnerable Narcissists: How Empathy Is Weaponized

What Darvo Is & How Narcissists Flip the Script

The Resentful Martyr: How Help Turns Toxic

Why Setting Boundaries with Narcissists Never Works

Grudge-Holding and Self-Righteous Narcissism

Why You Feel Crazy: Why No One Else Sees It 

6 Reasons You’re the Only One Who Sees It 

Communal Narcissists, Enablers, and Powerful Dynamics 

6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out)

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Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before!

In part 2, we’re getting into: 

- How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion

- Releasing emotions & feeling proud

- Listening to & trusting your body 

- Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life

- And so much more!

You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode! 

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What up, guys! It’s Lisa here with another BOMB episode of Women of Impact and if you’re practically a walking masterclass on people pleasing and questioning yourself, this episode will help you finally stop the validation-seeking behaviors and break the “Nice Girl” habits that keep you stuck in your comfort zone.  

Today my girl Radhi Devlukia-Shetty is back for another super honest & inspiring conversation about the power of facing your fears, not allowing anxiety to stop you, and standing strong when everyone has an opinion.

In case you didn’t already know – Radhi is a mission-driven entrepreneur, a fitness & well-being enthusiast, a plant based cook and recipe developer, and a trained dietitian, nutritionist and ayurvedic student & counselor. 

In this episode, we’re diving into:

- Breaking the bad habits that keep you playing small

- The secret to taking action even when you want to run in the other direction

- Separating love from the boundaries you need to have for yourself without feeling guilty

- Combating negative self-talk

- Comforting food for the mind and body

- And so much more!

And that’s just in the first part! Make sure you catch the rest of my convo with Radhi in part 2 for more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before!

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You know those moments when you KNOW you’re self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you’re “too much” or “not enough”… but you can’t figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone.

Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE.

I’m coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time.

No therapy jargon here. We talk:


Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy)


What to do when YOU’RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie)


The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere)


The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it’s not the same and we break it DOWN)


Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step)


How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know)

If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love.

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Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you’ve probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it’s so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate).

With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it’s totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love. 

SHOWNOTES

Infidelity, ownership, and why it’s NOT your fault

The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy

The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too

The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink

Why the real offense is when you stick around

Take your power back, he doesn’t need to change for you to leave

Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us

Are your “forevers” even aligned?

Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama)

The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what?

How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics)

Spirit’s nonprofit: how to get involved and give back

 

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