Doula Talk: Postpartum, Babies and the Battle for Sleep

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In this special episode of Doula Talk: Postpartum, Babies, and the Battle for Sleep, birth, postpartum, and sleep doula Deb Jimenez shares an announcement: the podcast is taking a break. Nothing dramatic is happening. Deb is simply practicing what she preaches, because none of us have unlimited capacity.
This isn't goodbye. With more than 60 episodes in the archive, Deb walks you through exactly where to start based on the season you're in right now, whether you're pregnant and preparing for birth, in the fourth trimester, working through feeding challenges, trying to make sense of baby sleep, feeling mentally overloaded, navigating postpartum anxiety, or just trying to keep the peace at home at 2 a.m.
Deb also shares what she's working on while the mic is off: a better-organized resource library built around what you need help with, not the format she happened to create it in.
And while the podcast is pausing, her support for families is not. Deb is still taking consultations for sleep, feeding, postpartum, and those "I don't even know what to do next" parenting questions.
If you've ever Googled baby questions at 2 a.m., this episode will point you to the right place to start.
Mentioned in this episode:
The complete Doula Talk episode guide, organized by topic, on the blog: douladeb.com/blog 
Join the email newsletter to be the first to know when the new resource library is ready: douladeb.com/newsletter 
Book a discovery call to find the right support for your family: douladeb.com/contact 
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Doula Deb: www.DoulaDeb.com
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The content in this podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for personalized advice and information.

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In this episode of Doula Talk, Doula Deb Jimenez tackles one of the most common places parents get stuck: making a sleep decision without spiraling into panic.
Deb walks through why baby sleep decisions feel so emotionally loaded, and why parents are often reacting to exhaustion rather than responding to an actual pattern. She shares the five-question framework she uses with her own clients to figure out what's actually happening before changing anything: what problem are we solving, is this a pattern or a phase, are the foundations in place, is my baby (and my family) ready, and is the plan sustainable?
Along the way, Deb reframes what "sleep readiness" really means, explains why confidence isn't the same as certainty, and makes the case for selective sleep coaching: support that targets the actual problem instead of overhauling everything at once.
If you've ever found yourself Googling baby sleep questions at 2 a.m., trying to make sense of conflicting advice, this episode will help you slow down, ask better questions, and trust yourself again.
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Take Deb's free Sleep Readiness Quiz at douladeb.com/sleep-readiness to find your most likely next step, whether that's foundations, coaching, or reassurance.
Curious whether a Sleep Foundations consult is right for your family? Learn more at douladeb.com.
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Doula Deb: www.DoulaDeb.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doula.deb/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/debdoula
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doula.deb
Twitter: https://twitter.com/doula_deb

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In this episode of Doula Talk, Doula Deb Jimenez tackles the obsession so many parents have with getting the schedule exactly right, down to the minute.
Deb shares a conversation with a mom who spent three hours debating a fifteen-minute difference in wake windows, and uses it to make a bigger point: a schedule can support sleep, but it can't create it. Before routines, babies need regulation, meaning they need to feel calm, fed, connected, and developmentally supported enough to actually be ready for sleep.
Deb walks through the questions she asks before ever touching a wake window (hunger, comfort, connection, overstimulation, development), explains why wake windows are a guide and not a law, and shares the pattern she sees most often in consultations: families convinced they need sleep training when the real issue is regulation throughout the day.
She also gets honest about something that doesn't get talked about enough: sometimes bedtime dread is less about the baby and more about a parent's own nervous system, or even a sign of a postpartum mood disorder worth checking on.
If you've ever cried over a wake window, this episode is your permission slip to stop chasing perfection and start paying attention instead.
Mentioned in this episode:
Postpartum Support International (postpartum.net), if you're wondering whether what you're feeling around bedtime might be more than exhaustion.
Take Deb's free Sleep Readiness Quiz at douladeb.com/sleep-readiness to find your most likely next step, whether that's foundations, coaching, or reassurance.
Curious whether a Sleep Foundations consult is right for your family? Learn more at douladeb.com.
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Doula Deb: www.DoulaDeb.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doula.deb/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/debdoula
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doula.deb
Twitter: https://twitter.com/doula_deb

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Why do so many parents wait until they’re completely exhausted before asking for support?
In this episode of Doula Talk, Deb talks about the pressure parents feel to “figure it out” on their own, the overwhelm that comes from conflicting advice online, and why more information doesn’t always create more clarity.
She also explains what personalized support actually looks like: not judgment, not a one-size-fits-all plan, but someone who listens, looks at the whole picture, and helps families decide what makes sense for their baby and their goals.
In this episode:
Why parents often wait too long to reach out
How Google, ChatGPT, and social media can create more confusion
What happens during a consultation
How to know when more support might help
Why proactive guidance can make the first year feel more manageable
If sleep is one of the things making life feel harder right now, Deb’s free Am I Ready to Sleep Coach? quiz can help you think through what’s going on and what kind of support may be the best fit.
Take the free sleep quiz: https://www.douladeb.com/sleep-readiness
Deb also offers one-time consultations for specific concerns and First Year Support for families who want ongoing guidance through sleep, feeding, development, and all the changes that happen during baby’s first year.
Sometimes you don’t need more advice. You just need help making sense of what you already know.
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Doula Deb: www.DoulaDeb.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doula.deb/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/debdoula
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doula.deb
Twitter: https://twitter.com/doula_deb

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Is your baby really fighting sleep—or are they trying to tell you something?
In this episode of Doula Talk, Deb breaks down why bedtime battles, short naps, crying, rolling around, or that sudden burst of energy before bed may have less to do with a baby “refusing” sleep and more to do with timing, development, overstimulation, feeding, or changing sleep needs.
You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between an overtired and undertired baby, why small timing adjustments can sometimes make a surprisingly big difference, and how to create flexible daily rhythms without becoming trapped by a rigid schedule.
Because sometimes you don’t need a brand-new sleep method. You just need to understand what your baby is communicating.
In this episode:
Why babies appear to “fight” sleep
Overtired vs. undertired: what each can look like
How development and overstimulation affect sleep
The connection between daytime feeding and nighttime sleep
Why timing matters more than many parents realize
Flexible rhythms vs. rigid schedules
When it may be time for personalized support
Need help figuring out your baby’s sleep?
 Deb offers one-time consultations for families who want help troubleshooting a specific challenge, First Year Support for families who want ongoing guidance as their baby grows and changes, and personalized sleep support when sleep needs a deeper look.
Sometimes the smallest adjustments create the biggest improvements—and you don’t have to figure out which adjustments to make alone.
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Thank you for listening! Tune in next time for more insights and support on your parenting journey.

Contact Information:
Doula Deb: www.DoulaDeb.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doula.deb/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/debdoula
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doula.deb
Twitter: https://twitter.com/doula_deb

Disclaimer:
The content in this podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for personalized advice and information.