The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

What makes someone instantly likable?
It's not charisma, popularity, or being the most interesting person in the room.
In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why some people naturally draw others toward them — and the simple behaviors that make people genuinely enjoy being around you.
You'll learn:
The biggest mistake people make when trying to be likable
The 7 habits of socially magnetic people
Why confidence plays a huge role in connection
Simple conversation shifts that make people instantly warmer toward you
If you want to feel more confident socially and build stronger connections, this episode will show you how.
Resources Mentioned:
www.trishblackwell.com/90day
www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
 
 
⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

Ever felt the sting of not being the first pick?
Not the favorite friend.
Not the chosen one.
Not the one selected.
In this episode, we break down why being overlooked feels so personal — and why it triggers deep insecurity around belonging, worth, and identity.
You'll learn:
* Why your brain turns social moments into identity conclusions
* The hidden fear behind comparison and rejection
* How to separate facts from the story you're telling yourself
* The mindset shift that builds stable, internal confidence
* How to stay socially confident even when you're not chosen
 
If you struggle with people-pleasing, comparison, feeling intimidated, or overthinking social dynamics — this episode will change how you interpret those moments.
Confidence isn't about being first.
It's about being grounded — regardless of where you rank.
🎯 Ready to build real social confidence?
Grab my Social Confidence Curriculum in the show notes and start training the skill of internal stability.www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
 
⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

What if you're not stuck with the personality, habits, or patterns you have right now?
 
What if the version of you that feels anxious, insecure, inconsistent, or held back… isn't permanent — just practiced?
 
In this episode, we're diving into the science of neuroplasticity and how your brain can be deliberately rewired to support the identity you actually want.
 
Because real change doesn't happen by trying harder.
 
It happens by becoming someone new.
 
You'll learn:
What neuroplasticity really means (in simple terms)
Why most people struggle to change — even when they're motivated
How identity drives behavior more than willpower ever will
The step-by-step process to rewire your brain on purpose
How to practice becoming the confident, decisive, grounded version of yourself
Signs your brain is actually changing (even if it feels uncomfortable)
 
If you've ever felt stuck in your own patterns or frustrated that you "know what to do" but aren't doing it, this episode will show you why — and what to do instead.
 
Because you are not fixed.
 
You are trainable.
 
And the most powerful transformation starts with changing who you believe you are.
 
✨ At the end of this episode, I'll also share how you can work with me inside my brand-new 90-Day Identity Shift Experience — a deep coaching journey designed to help you rewire your beliefs, rebuild your self-concept, and become the person you know you're meant to be
If this episode resonates, share it with a friend who's ready for a reinvention season 💛
 
⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

Ever feel like you're doing all the right things… and nothing is working?
You're showing up.
You're trying.
You're putting in effort.
And yet… no breakthrough. No traction. No visible results.
This episode is for the moment when motivation dips, doubt gets loud, and quitting feels logical.
Inside this episode, we'll talk about:
Why progress often goes invisible before it becomes inevitable
The dangerous lie that results = effort
What's actually happening when nothing seems to be working
The mindset shift that keeps high achievers from quitting too soon
Because sometimes the moment that feels like failure…
…is actually the moment right before the breakthrough.


⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

Self-consciousness isn't the real problem—it's just the symptom.
In this episode, we're breaking down what's actually happening when you feel hyper-aware, awkward, hesitant, or overly focused on how you're coming across. Most people try to "fix" self-consciousness by forcing confidence, faking boldness, or trying to stop caring what people think—but that approach never lasts.
 
Instead, you'll learn:
Why self-consciousness is a sign of misdirected focus, not insecurity
The internal habit that keeps confidence fragile and dependent on others
How to shift from self-monitoring to self-trust
The simple mindset change that makes self-consciousness fade naturally
 
If you've ever felt stuck in your head, overly aware of yourself in conversations, or hesitant to fully show up as you are—this episode will help you feel grounded, calm, and confident again.


⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.