School of Self-Image

Welcome to Poolside Confessions, my summer series where I sit by the water, slow down, and share what I'm actually living and thinking about.
Last year, I felt a very particular kind of tiredness. Not physical. Emotional fatigue paired with restlessness, and I couldn't figure out why. Was it my hormones? The time of year?
What I discovered was something else entirely: I was tired of performing.
I don't think of myself as a performer. I live close to my values. I know who I am. And even still, I had been performing. In this episode, I share what I found when I got honest with myself – and why breaking up with your own success strategies might be the most important thing you do this year.
Here's what we cover:
What success strategies are – and why even your best ones expire

Why the things that carried you this far might not take you all the way

The moment you realize you're at a three, not a ten

Why it's harder to let go of what's working than what isn't

The question that cuts through everything

Why the fatigue you're feeling has nothing to do with supplements

What it actually means to be fully alive

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Welcome to Poolside Confessions, my summer series where I sit by the water, slow down, and share what I'm actually living and thinking about.
Today's confession is something I've been sitting with for a while.
I started thinking about the seasons of my life when anxiety showed up the loudest. Some of those seasons made sense from the outside – things were hard. But others were confusing. Things were going well. Success was real. And the anxiety was still there.
Sitting with all of it, something became clear: anxiety is never really about what's happening outside of you.
So what is it about? In this episode, I share what I've come to understand – and the practice that has quietly shifted how I live.
Here's what we cover:
Why anxiety is never about your circumstances

What always accompanied my most anxious seasons – and why I didn't see it at the time

How broken promises to yourself create low-grade anxiety you can't quite name

What happens when you stop trusting your intuition

Why the scary stories you tell yourself about the future are working against you

The practices that have built real self-trust in my life

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Welcome to Poolside Confessions, my summer series where I sit by the water, slow down, and share what I'm actually living and thinking about. 
Today's episode is one I've been wanting to record for a while.
People assume aging well is a formula. Find the right peptides. Count the right macros. Follow the right protocol. 
I'm not here to tell you what to take or track. I'm here to tell you what I've actually come back to, again and again, over the years – the four things that have made the most difference in how I feel, how I move through the world, and how I see myself at 50.
Some of it might not be what you expect.
Here's what we cover:
Why aging well starts with your emotional life, not your physical one

The love affair you must have with yourself if you want to enjoy getting older

Why women with "arrival energy" are missing the point  and how to stay curious

The dictator vs. the wild child: finding the self that leads you through life

True pleasure: what it is, what it isn't, and how to tell the difference

The overlooked physical practice that changes how you move, walk, and carry yourself

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Welcome to Poolside Confessions, my summer series where we gather around the pool and I confess the things I've been thinking, feeling, and experiencing – in hopes of normalizing these conversations and helping you know you're not alone.
Today's confession is one that almost every successful woman I've ever talked to has felt at some point. The fear of losing it all.
When I first started my business, my fears looked different. Am I good enough? Will I make it? What will people think? And in the back of my mind was this big fantasy of arrival – that when I finally hit a certain number, built a certain life, I'd feel safe. Secure. Like I'd finally made it.
You get there. And a new fear is waiting. The bigger the building you've built, the harder the ego whispers about the fall.
So many women end up creating a life their younger selves would have been so proud of – and they can't even enjoy it because they're too busy white-knuckling it. Too afraid it's all going to be taken away.
In this episode, I'm walking you through the practices that have set me free from this fear – and that I've watched set other women free, too.
Here's what we cover:
Why the fear of losing it all shows up the moment you finally build something you love

The thought pattern that keeps successful women exhausted and unable to enjoy what they've created

How to entertain the worst-case scenario… so you can finally make peace with it

The compassion practice I use with the scared little girl inside of me

Why getting clear on what is enough brings relief

How to stop building a prison out of your own success

The truth about freedom… and why it was never about the money

 
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Style is your survival strategy. Come find yours: https://schoolofselfimage.com/june
We're about to live through the most average decade in human history. AI is becoming really, really good at sounding like everyone. And it shows.
But here's the thing that a machine can't do. It can't be a woman who knows exactly who she is.
Lately, I'm hearing the same thing from women everywhere: "I feel invisible. I feel replaceable." And these are not invisible women. These are women who've built things. Run things. Walked into a room and used to own it.
In this episode, I'm naming what's happening – and making the case that personal style is our survival strategy. Full stop.
What this moment demands is originality. Yours. This is a call for you to stop performing a life and start living one that is unmistakably, unapologetically yours.
Here's what we cover:
Why so many accomplished women feel invisible and replaceable right now

What's actually happening as the world gets handed over to AI

Why personal style is one of the most enlightening journeys a woman can take

The one thing AI can never fake

The firehose of formulas, and why copying her will never get you her result

The exact moment my business started taking off

The June Invitation and what's waiting for you inside the membership

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