Kingdom Sexuality

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Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again!

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Resources:

The Better Share

Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself

The Flirtation Experiment 

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12

Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04

Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01

Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54

The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58

Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56

Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07

Practical fairness conversations and communication — 23:07–28:03

Narration experiments and practical tools (appreciation, storytelling, and experiments) — 28:03–41:13

Closing, resources, and prayer — 41:52–44:27
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Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super practical, so whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or just need a little encouragement, this conversation is for you!

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Resources:

Living Easy with Lindsey podcast

Don’t Burn Your Own House Down

Ruthless Elimination of Hurry

Atomic Habits

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Sponsor Break - 0:28

Introduction of Guest: Lindsey Maestas - 0:34

Lindsey's Background and Book Introduction - 1:25

Discussion on Marriage and Relationships - 2:04

Lindsey's Personal Story and Challenges - 4:27

Marriage Challenges and Overcoming Them - 6:15

Importance of Intimacy and Connection - 12:24

Practical Tips for Marriage - 13:12

The Role of Prayer in Marriage - 16:54

The Impact of Technology on Relationships - 37:18

Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer - 47:56
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Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually better than normal sex? Tune in as the KS team explores how heart posture affects intimacy and practical ways to foster connection amidst ongoing conflicts.

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Resources:

Called to Peace Ministries

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Title and Listener Engagement - 0:35

Verse of the Day - 1:03

Disclaimer on Conflict and Abuse - 1:28

Setting the Scene: Conflict and Intimacy - 2:19

Initial Reactions to the Episode Topic - 2:37

Discussion on Sex During Conflict - 3:05

Story from "Awaken Love" - 4:01

Personal Experiences and Reactions - 5:14

Exploring Anger and Intimacy - 10:38

Physical and Emotional Responses - 11:07

Conflict Resolution Strategies - 18:21

Compromise and Communication - 20:48

Makeup Sex and Emotional Intensity - 23:32

Sex as a Relationship Glue - 26:48

Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 27:46
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Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional health, fostering deep relationships as men, and becoming the man God has called you to be!

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Use the code KINGDOM15 and get 15% of all products at Lead Your Home 

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Podcast Introduction by Kyle - 0:39

Introduction of Guest, Landon Hargrove - 1:27

Landon's Background and Story - 1:36

Journey into Church Planting - 4:01

Challenges and Personal Struggles - 7:31

Realization and Change - 9:21

Importance of Family and Personal Health - 10:19

Balancing Career and Family - 12:05

Leading from a Place of Identity - 13:06

Steps for Men to Start Leading - 18:10

Finding Balance and Managing Tension - 22:32

Importance of Community and Friendship - 40:10

Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 52:27

Where to Find Landon and Resources - 54:29
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In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our understanding of sexuality, marriage, and family life. Brook Mosser shares insightful perspectives on recognizing these cycles, involving God in the healing process, and practical steps to create a legacy of health and wholeness for the next generation!!

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Resources:


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Habits of the Household

Ronald Rolheiser Sacred Fire

Brook Mossers prayer book

Intentionalparents.org

Intentionalfatherhood.org

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Approximate Episode Timestamps 

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Guest Introduction: Brooke Mosser - 1:02

Discussion on Generational Patterns - 2:41

Brooke's Personal Story and Family Background - 3:10

Understanding Generational Sin and Curses - 5:21

Epigenetics and Trauma - 8:09

The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex - 10:16

Creating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Families - 12:01

Balancing Parental Influence and Personal Responsibility - 24:16

Practical Steps for Healing and Involving Christ - 31:17

The Role of Therapy and Overcoming Financial Barriers - 38:09

Supporting a Spouse Through Generational Challenges - 40:54

Advice on Changing Legacy and Staying Committed - 47:42

Recommended Books and Resources - 50:24

Final Thoughts and Encouragement - 53:36

Closing Prayer - 57:12
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