Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Why the Spark Isn’t Always Enough
We all know that rush - the butterflies, the magnetic pull, the thrill of connection that makes you think, “This could be it.”But what happens when the spark fades, and you realise your lifestyles, values, or visions for the future don’t quite align?In this episode, Ashika Lessani and Anu Verma dive deep into the difference between chemistry and compatibility - and why both matter, but in very different ways. Together, we unpack the truth about attraction, emotional intelligence, and the courage it takes to choose peace over potential.We explore:💫 What chemistry really feels like (and why it’s so addictive)💭 Why compatibility quietly determines long-term peace and partnership💎 The fine line between having standards and being judgmental❤️ How loneliness can tempt us to settle for less than we deserve🌿 Why standards are a reflection of self-respect, not entitlementThis episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned if their “type” is keeping them stuck — or if their standards are really boundaries in disguise.✨ Tune in, reflect, and learn how to build love that feels calm, aligned, and real.#DatingWisdom #SelfWorth #Compatibility #EmotionalIntelligence #ModernLove #Boundaries #Healing #SelfAwarenessSend us a textSupport the showConnect with me: - Sign up to my Webinar: https://victim2victor.net/webinar-registration- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victim2victor - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victim_2_victor/- Website: https://victim2victor.net- Victim 2 Victor Audio & Book: https://adbl.co/3akVNCu : https://www.amazon.com/Victim-Victor-inspirational-struggle-overcoming/dp/1649530951/
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See Through: The Power and Price of Radical Transparency After Trauma
In this episode of Victim 2 Victor, we’re joined by Dr. Stephanie M. Hutchins, trauma recovery coach, author, and founder of Serotinous Life. Stephanie’s latest book, See Through: The Art and Cost of Radical Transparency in a World That Profits from Pretending, invites us to explore what it really means to live authentically after trauma - even when it costs us comfort, approval, or control.A survivor and truth-teller, Stephanie shares how she moved from performing “I’m fine” to living with radical transparency, integration, and self-trust. We dive into topics like high-functioning trauma, setting boundaries without apology, and the messy but liberating work of being seen.This conversation is a reminder that healing isn’t about erasing the past - it’s about learning to live fully with our scars. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much” or “not enough,” Stephanie’s story will give you permission to be both real and radiant in your healing journey.🔗 Connect with Dr. Stephanie M. Hutchins:🌐 Website: serotinouslife.com/see-through📘 Facebook: facebook.com/serotinouslife🎥 YouTube: youtube.com/@serotinouslife📸 Instagram: instagram.com/serotinouslifeSend us a textSupport the showConnect with me: - Sign up to my Webinar: https://victim2victor.net/webinar-registration- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victim2victor - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victim_2_victor/- Website: https://victim2victor.net- Victim 2 Victor Audio & Book: https://adbl.co/3akVNCu : https://www.amazon.com/Victim-Victor-inspirational-struggle-overcoming/dp/1649530951/
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Trauma Isn’t a Wall - It’s a Door: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Healing
In this enlightening episode of Victim 2 Victor, we’re joined by Dr. Richard Grossman - Integrative Healer, Author, and Authority on Ancient Wisdom for Modern Healing. With over four decades of experience in acupuncture, Chinese medicine, and Amazonian shamanism, Dr. Grossman has dedicated his life to helping people see trauma not as an ending, but as an initiation into deeper healing and spiritual awakening.Through his groundbreaking work and his book Trust and Forgive: The Medicine of Your Life, Dr. Grossman explores how forgiveness, trust, and ancient wisdom can help us transform pain into purpose. He reminds us that healing isn’t about erasing our wounds- it’s about learning to walk through them with compassion, awareness, and courage.💫 In this episode, we explore:How trauma can become a powerful doorway to self-discoveryThe role of forgiveness as medicine for the soulIntegrating Eastern medicine, shamanic wisdom, and modern therapyHow to reframe pain as a catalyst for transformationPractical tools to begin your own healing journeyThis conversation is both grounding and transcendent—a bridge between the ancient and the modern, science and spirit, pain and possibility.📖 Book: Trust and Forgive: The Medicine of Your LifeSend us a textSupport the showConnect with me: - Sign up to my Webinar: https://victim2victor.net/webinar-registration- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victim2victor - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victim_2_victor/- Website: https://victim2victor.net- Victim 2 Victor Audio & Book: https://adbl.co/3akVNCu : https://www.amazon.com/Victim-Victor-inspirational-struggle-overcoming/dp/1649530951/
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Shattered, Broken & Beautiful: Escaping the Cult of Narcissism
In this powerful and deeply moving episode of Victim 2 Victor, we’re joined by Brooke Deanne - Trauma Healing Mentor, Rapid Transformational Therapist (RTT), NLP Practitioner, and survivor turned advocate.Raised in a doomsday religious cult and later trapped in an abusive marriage, Brooke endured years of psychological control, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation. But when she finally broke free, she transformed her pain into purpose - devoting her life to helping other survivors reclaim their freedom, self-worth, and faith in themselves.Today, Brooke is the author of the #1 Amazon bestseller Shattered, Broken, & Beautiful – Losing My Religion and Finding Faith, and host of The Cult Diaries podcast, where she sheds light on the hidden patterns of narcissistic abuse and religious trauma.💫 In this episode, we explore:The shocking parallels between cults and narcissistic relationshipsHow gaslighting and trauma bonds keep survivors trappedThe first steps to rebuilding trust, identity, and self-worthThe healing power of RTT, NLP, and spiritual awakeningWhy your story - no matter how broken - can become your greatest source of beauty and strengthThis conversation is a beacon of hope for anyone who has ever felt trapped in cycles of manipulation or silence. Brooke’s story is proof that even after devastation, healing isn’t just possible - it’s transformative.🌐 Learn more: lifecoachinggoddess.com/shattered-broken-beautiful📘 Books: Shattered, Broken, & Beautiful | The Grief Monster🎧 Podcast: The Cult DiariesSend us a textSupport the showConnect with me: - Sign up to my Webinar: https://victim2victor.net/webinar-registration- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victim2victor - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victim_2_victor/- Website: https://victim2victor.net- Victim 2 Victor Audio & Book: https://adbl.co/3akVNCu : https://www.amazon.com/Victim-Victor-inspirational-struggle-overcoming/dp/1649530951/
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Breaking Cycles, Embracing Neurodiversity: Empowerment for Moms
This week on Victim 2 Victor, I’m joined by Kori - a trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming coach who helps late-diagnosed moms step into their power without apology.Through her work, Kori guides women to reclaim their identity, break generational cycles, and advocate fiercely for themselves and their daughters. She brings a rare and powerful blend of trauma healing, executive function support, and real-world advocacy tools - all grounded in her own lived experience as a neurodivergent mom raising a neurodivergent daughter.In this episode, we dive deep into:How trauma and neurodiversity intersect in familiesPractical strategies to support neurodivergent children with love and clarityBreaking generational cycles through conscious parentingWhy self-care and community support are essential for moms on this journeyKori’s mission lives at the intersection of storytelling, science, and soul, and her wisdom is a reminder that empowerment starts at home.📲 Learn more: https://koriathome.com/Send us a textSupport the showConnect with me: - Sign up to my Webinar: https://victim2victor.net/webinar-registration- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victim2victor - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victim_2_victor/- Website: https://victim2victor.net- Victim 2 Victor Audio & Book: https://adbl.co/3akVNCu : https://www.amazon.com/Victim-Victor-inspirational-struggle-overcoming/dp/1649530951/
Über Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor, the podcast dedicated to helping you to heal from trauma, break toxic relationship patterns, and step into secure, fulfilling love.I’m Anu Verma, trauma recovery coach, somatic practitioner, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood abuse and relational trauma. Through candid conversations, expert insights, and practical tools, I guide listeners to:Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationshipsBuild self-trust, emotional safety, and resilienceBreak the cycle of unhealthy love patternsTransform pain into power and live authentically.On this podcast, you’ll hear inspiring stories of survival, healing, and personal growth, alongside actionable strategies you can apply in your own life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.If you’re ready to heal old wounds, attract healthy relationships, and reclaim your power, subscribe and join a community committed to thriving beyond trauma.If you're ready to take that first step or just want to learn more, I invite you to visit my socials: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/https://www.facebook.com/anuvermaV2Vhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2vOr check out my resources here: linktr.ee/healing.journeyy.You deserve a future filled with hope, strength, and joy. Let’s get there together ✨
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