Masculine & Feminine Dynamics

Many spiritually intelligent people are draining their power because they're trying to help others. They're caught in a saviour pattern that has a spiritual mask around it, leading to misaligned connections where their energy is drained. At worst, people end up in abusive dynamics while trying to help someone who isn't open to receiving that help.
True service energises you because there's a flow of energy: you give from your heart, and the recipient is open to receiving what you offer. There's no expectation of specific returns, but there must be receptivity. Serving nourishes your soul, while saving depletes it.
Saviour patterns drain our power and peace. Our energy becomes scattered and drained as we try to force outcomes with people who aren't receptive. But this episode offers practical ways to check if you’re in saviour mode, and begin to protect your energy.
Mentioned in this episode:
Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine

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The Core Method™

The trademarked, unique and universal coaching framework for deep transformation

Conventional dating simply doesn't work for old souls. The games, pretending, and shallow dynamics that are normalised in modern dating are completely draining for spiritually mature people who are oriented toward truth and authenticity.
People who continue pursuing conventional dating methods often find themselves in a cycle of frustration and misalignment. This lower vibration attracts more of the same energy, leading to wasted time with incompatible partners. The resistance created from this frustration only pushes the right person further away.
If you’re an old soul, you have permission to stop forcing yourself into misaligned dating experiences and instead focus on living truthfully. When we align with our soul's purpose and truth, we naturally attract the right person through resonance rather than performance. Old souls are meant to meet, not search or chase.
Mentioned in this episode:
Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine

A 4-week immersive program for women
The Core Method™

The trademarked, unique and universal coaching framework for deep transformation

Many men carry a deep fear of disappointing women. This fear manifests as people-pleasing behaviours: saying yes when they mean no, changing opinions to avoid conflict, apologising excessively, and avoiding difficult conversations. These actions might seem harmless, but they're rooted in fear rather than authenticity.
To break free from people-pleasing patterns, men need to start by expressing their truth without over-explaining or softening it. And they need to make decisions and stand behind them.
Women can lose respect for men who don't respect themselves. They can’t trust a man’s yes or no, they can end up constantly on guard and unable to feel his authentic presence.
But breathing through the discomfort of potential disagreement builds a new muscle; one that will ultimately create more trust and deeper connection in your relationships.
Mentioned in this episode:
Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine

A 4-week immersive program for women
The Core Method™

The trademarked, unique and universal coaching framework for deep transformation

Many men today never complete the crucial step from boyhood to manhood: separating emotionally from their mothers and establishing their own authority. This leaves them emotionally stunted, unable to form healthy partnerships or embody true commitment. They remain trapped in patterns of seeking approval, avoiding conflict, and prioritising harmony over truth.
Men need to cross that symbolic threshold where they shift from dependency to sovereignty. This doesn't mean cutting off their mother, but transforming the relationship from boy-mother to man-mother, where he walks his own path without needing her emotional approval.
When a man fails to address his mother wound, his energy becomes scattered, his boundaries inconsistent. He can’t fully choose or commit to a woman because that capacity simply isn't there.
But in this episode, Lorin offers ways to examine where you might be carrying false guilt, to notice how this guilt affects your decisions and drains your energy, and to begin releasing it.
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The Core Method™

The trademarked, unique and universal coaching framework for deep transformation
Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine

A 4-week immersive program for women

It’s not always easy to recognise genuine awakening in our partners. We can mistake spiritual talk for true embodiment, or confuse peak experiences with integrated wisdom. This creates painful cycles of disappointment in our relationships.
But awakened beings share core qualities regardless of gender: unwavering integrity, grounded spirituality, emotional maturity, and devotion to service.
Chasing relationships with unawakened beings leads us to repeat painful cycles. Drama becomes addictive, our nervous systems start equating intensity with aliveness, and we remain trapped in suffering rather than experiencing the true richness of conscious partnership.
But this episode offers a simple reflection to help you begin the journey toward recognising genuine awakening, both in yourself and in a potential partner.
Mentioned in this episode:
Healing Your Relationship with the Masculine

A 4-week immersive program for women
The Core Method™

The trademarked, unique and universal coaching framework for deep transformation