We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

Star of Botched and The Swan, Dr Terry Dubrow became one of reality TV’s most recognisable surgeons, but this conversation reveals what was really happening behind the shows that made him famous.

Terry looks back at the shows that made him famous, from the backlash surrounding The Swan and Bridalplasty to why he initially thought Botched was a terrible idea. He reflects on what producers pushed for behind the scenes, the moments he refused to cross a line with patients, and why surgical training can create the confidence - and “God complex” - needed to make life-or-death decisions.

He also confronts the darker side of cosmetic surgery, from dangerous BBLs and medical tourism to the rise of “looksmaxxing”. Terry revisits the patient no surgeon would touch after concrete-like material was injected into her face, and the operation he created after 11 other surgeons had refused to help her. He also explores how Ozempic, GLP-1s and rapid weight loss are changing the face of cosmetic medicine.

Away from surgery, Terry opens up about fame, family, staying strong at 67, and the extraordinary story of forging Heather Dubrow’s signature to get her onto The Real Housewives of Orange County. Funny, provocative and unexpectedly personal, this is Dr Terry Dubrow beyond Botched.

Dr Terry Dubrow, We Need To Talk



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(00:00) Intro

(02:20) Paul And Dr Terry Discuss PK

(04:24) How Dr Terry Stays Fit At 67

(09:03) Why Dr Terry Became a Cosmetic Surgeon

(16:07) Dr Terry on The Swan and Its Controversy

(24:46) Why The Swan Was Cancelled

(27:02) Inside The Controversial Bridalplasty TV Show

(36:06) Anthropic Ad

(37:27) How Dr Terry Joined Real Housewives

(41:59) How Botched Became A Hit

(46:53) The Patient No Surgeon Would Touch

(51:49) Rajee's Message To Dr Terry

(56:50) Why BBLs Can Be Deadly

(01:01:19) The Dangers Of Medical Tourism

(01:04:33) Dr Terry Gives Paul Breast Implants

(01:07:36) How Beauty Trends Change Surgery

(01:12:12) Dr Terry On GLP-1 Weight Loss Drugs

(01:24:27) Why Looksmaxxing Is Dangerous

(01:30:39) Inside Dr Terry's Marriage

(01:33:18) What Fatherhood Taught Dr Terry

(01:37:32) Dr Terry Reads Heather's Letter

(01:41:11) Dr Terry's Most Memorable Conversation

(01:43:21) Paul's Biggest Takeaways

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Dr Tara Swart reveals the surprising neuroscience behind love, attraction and relationships - from the hormones that drive bonding to the hidden signals our brains use when choosing a partner.

She explains why oxytocin is so important for love and trust, how stress can affect our relationships, why smell can be a powerful attraction signal, and what happens in the brain when a new relationship becomes sexual. Tara also explores why delaying sex may help create stronger bonds, and how evolution continues to influence who we find attractive.

We're Talking Relationship Neuroscience!

(00:00) Intro
(00:30) How the Brain Shapes Our Relationships
(02:32) The Key Parts of the Brain That Affect Relationships
(04:09) How Dr Tara Defines Love
(06:40) The Brain Chemicals Behind Love and Relationships
(13:00) How Smell Influences Romantic Attraction
(16:38) The Science Behind Physical Attraction
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GK Barry became one of the internet’s biggest personalities, but this conversation reveals the Grace Keeling behind the fame, the jokes and the confidence.

She reflects on being bullied at school, feeling desperate to fit in, and learning to make people laugh before anyone could laugh at her. Grace opens up about her relationship with her body, becoming obsessed with being thin, and how the attention that came with changing her appearance reinforced everything she believed about herself.

She also speaks about witnessing racism through her dad Andrew, discovering her sexuality, and falling in love with Ella Rutherford - from the fear of letting people know to finding a relationship where she finally feels accepted for who she is.

For the first time, Grace shares an experience from when she was 17 involving a 27-year-old man, and the years of confusion and self-blame that followed. She explains why she didn't report what happened at the time, the advice she was given by police, and how it took her years to understand what had happened to her and recognise that it wasn't her fault.

Funny, honest and deeply vulnerable, this is GK Barry ready to tell her story.

GK Barry, We Need To Talk

Content warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault and disordered eating. We have included links to support charities and resources here:

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Beat Eating Disorders https://linkly.link/2sHpG
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(00:00) Intro

(01:37) How Paul and Grace First Met

(03:37) Grace vs GK Barry: What's the Difference?

(06:53) Why Grace Wanted to Come on We Need To Talk

(10:04) Growing Up Outside the UK

(15:15) Stepdad's Impact on Grace's Life

(18:38) Moving Back to the UK as a Child

(26:10) Shopify Ad

(27:23) Not Fitting In At School

(44:41) Struggles With Appearance

(52:45) Career Ambitions After Leaving School

(57:06) Paul Surprises Grace With A Letter

(01:07:23) The GK Barry Persona

(01:10:06) How Grace Monetised Her Social Media Success

(01:15:05) Grace's Rise From TikTok to Television

(01:21:48) Huel Ad

(01:22:55) Grace on Writing Her First Book

(01:25:14) Grace Opens Up About Her Experience of Sexual Assault

(01:37:47) When Grace Realised She Was Attracted to Women

(01:42:16) How Grace and Ella Met

(01:46:54) Why Grace and Ella's Relationship Works

(01:52:43) Grace Reads a Letter From Ella

(01:57:17) Grace's Love of Prosecco

(01:59:48) Most Memorable Conversation

(02:02:15) Paul's Takeaways

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Paul sits down with world-renowned relationship experts John and Julie Gottman to uncover the science behind love, marriage and lasting connection. They reveal why happy couples still argue, why 69% of relationship problems never truly go away, and why conflict itself isn’t what destroys relationships.

From the small daily behaviours that strengthen intimacy to the habits that can slowly damage a partnership, the Gottmans share decades of research into what makes relationships thrive. A fascinating conversation about love, trust, communication and the secrets behind couples who stay together.

(00:00) Intro

(00:28) Is Marriage Outdated?

(07:43) The Gottmans Define a Successful Relationship

(12:28) The Gottmans Explain the 6-Second Kiss

(16:20) The Number One Cause of Arguments in Relationships
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Love Island 2026 finalists Simba and Angelista reveal what really happened in the Love Island villa, from their relationship and the “villain edit” to the moments viewers never saw. The Love Island couple open up about falling in love on the show, exploring other connections, public pressure and Angelista’s experience as a Black woman in the villa.

Simba also opens up about growing up with his mother’s motor neurone disease, becoming one of her carers and how that responsibility shaped his ambition, emotions and the man he became. Together, Simba and Angelista revisit the private conversations that brought them closer, the moments that tested their relationship and what it was like falling in love under constant scrutiny.

Angelista also speaks candidly about desirability, representation and the pressure she felt knowing Black women were watching her experience unfold.

Raw, vulnerable and deeply personal, this is Simba and Angelista revealing the relationship and pressures that existed beyond the Love Island edit.

Simba and Angelista, We Need To Talk

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(00:00) Intro
(02:07) Why Simba Wanted To Talk
(08:21) Did Simba Fall in Love on Love Island?
(12:07) Simba's North London Upbringing & Zimbabwean Heritage
(14:03) Simba's Mother's Health Condition
(23:09) Simba's Parents' Divorce
(29:33) How Simba Cares for His Mother
(33:39) How Simba Applied for Love Island
(36:41) Simba's First Impressions of Angie
(40:20) Anthropic Ad
(42:09) Angie's First Impressions of Simba
(44:01) How Simba & Angie Established a Connection
(47:22) The First Test of Their Relationship
(52:17) Being a Black Couple on Love Island
(54:55) When Simba & Angie Fully Trusted Each Other
(58:33) Their Thoughts on Finishing Third
(01:01:17) Did Angie Find Love on Love Island?
(01:05:17) Angie's Experience as a Black Woman on Love Island
(01:12:28) Why Angie Felt She Had Limited Options in the Villa
(01:16:20) Diversity in Reality TV
(01:19:57) The Positives of Angie's Love Island Experience
(01:25:55) Paul's Takeaways

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