My Husband Has ED & Low “Sex-Drive”, Will Sexual Sin Ruin Marriage?, & My Husband Struggles With Porn—Will This Ever End? | ACW327
Questions answered this episode:1. My husband and I are newly married and both committed to our faith. I came into marriage with a deep understanding of the sacredness of the marital embrace through TOB, but we quickly discovered I have a much higher sex drive, and he struggles with erectile dysfunction. It’s left me feeling rejected, unattractive, and alone—especially since women rarely talk about having stronger desire. I’m trying to love him through this, but I’m grieving how hard this is compared to what I imagined.2. I’ve been on and off with a woman I feel deeply connected to—like home. That connection has led us into sexual sin many times, though we often go to confession. I truly love her, but I’m afraid our past intimacy might have harmed our chances of a holy marriage and family. If God is calling us to be together, have we already ruined something good?3. My husband has struggled with porn since he was young, even though he always sensed it was wrong. He worked hard to stop, especially during our engagement, but relapsed a few times in marriage—mainly around postpartum seasons. He’s been free for over two years, but I’ve just had our third baby and feel anxious it could return. He’s otherwise loving and tender, and our sex life is beautiful. But I worry this may be a cross we carry forever. Is real healing possible?Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II’s beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body. ---🔥 Get 3 FREE sessions of our flagship course on Theology of the Body📕 Get a copy of Christopher's Eating the Sunrise: Meditations on the Liturgy & Our Hunger for Beauty⚡️ Want to support the Theology of the Body Institute and have a better chance of us answering your question? Join our Patron Community!---Submit your question at AskChristopherWest.com.---Resources mentioned this week: TOBI COURSE SCHEDULEList of trusted counselors & psychologistsLove & Responsibility YouTube SeriesJPII Legacy Foundation WebsiteFreedom Coachinghttps://www.stevemotylcoaching.com/Hope’s GardenWhat to Do With Your Sexual Needs YouTube VideoSexual Needs Into Prayer YouTube Video---🎥 Check out our YouTube Channel📚 View our [COURSE SCHEDULE](https://tobinstitute.org/programs/tobi-schedule/) to register for a course, ONLINE or IN-PERSON!📘 [GOOD NEWS ABOUT SEX & MARRIAGE](https://shop.corproject.com/collections/best-sellers/products/good-news-about-sex-and-marriage) by Christopher West. Use discount code MARRIAGE during checkout for 20% off one or multiple copies.🏔️ Want to join us on one of our pilgrimages? [Click here](http://tobpilgrimages.com/)If you are in financial need and honestly cannot afford a book or resource recommended on this podcast, contact:
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