
When Caring for Someone Hurts You: What’s Truly Loving?
15.12.2025 | 20 Min.
Discover how to take loving care of yourself while caring for a friend, partner, or family member who is ill or emotionally dysregulated.

Shame as Control Over Yourself and Others
09.12.2025 | 28 Min.
Every day I hear clients say to me, “I am not good enough." This is core shame. Learn how shame can be a way of attempting to have control over others and God.

Facing the Feelings That Fuel Addictions
02.12.2025 | 22 Min.
Underlying all addictive behavior is the intent to avoid painful feelings. Addictions are a major form a self-abandonment, leading to the aloneness and emptiness that often underlie addictive behavior. Practicing Inner Bonding heals addictions.

Your Wounded Self is Not Compatible with Anyone
25.11.2025 | 20 Min.
No one likes our wounded self, and we don’t like others’ wounded self, so when we allow our wounded self to be in charge in our relationships, we are not compatible with anyone.

Violence and the Abandonment of the Self
17.11.2025 | 20 Min.
Our society is more violent than ever. It’s time to understand where violence comes from and what we can each do about it.



Inner Bonding