Dr. Burns shares three simple, powerful ways parents can lead well in a digital age:
Protect your tables – creating intentional space for connection and conversation
Take back bedrooms – prioritizing sleep, safety, and shared spaces
Steward your clocks – being intentional with the limited time you have with your kids
You’ll also hear encouragement rooted in faith, neuroscience, and real-life parenting, reminding us that this conversation is ultimately about connection—not control.
What You'll Learn
What it means to raise digital natives (Gen Z and Gen Alpha)
How technology impacts attention, memory, mental health, and identity formation
Why boredom is actually good for kids’ brains and creativity
How family meals and shared time build resilience, trust, and emotional health
Why removing screens from bedrooms can dramatically improve sleep and emotional regulation
The Nine-Minute Theory for increasing meaningful parent-child connection
How faith, balance, and intentionality can guide families toward healthy technology habits
Resources Mentioned
LifeGroup Talk Notes
Romans 12:2 – Scripture referenced when discussing cultural habits vs. transformation
Dr. Anne Fishel (Harvard Medical School) – The Benefit of Family Meal Time
Brian McLaren – Author and theologian; Four Stages of Faith DevelopmentSimplicity → Complexity → Perplexity → Harmony
Axis.org – Life.Church partner focused on lifelong parent-child conversations
Barna Group – Research on families, Gen Z, and Gen Alpha
Life.Church Aligning Values – Referenced in closing encouragement
Screen Time Suggestions:Preschool (2–5):Supervised iPad use OK, up to 1 hour/day.
Parent chooses QUALITY content; child doesn’t “drive” device.
Keep healthy developmental routines (sleep, outdoor play, undistracted parental connection).
Elementary (5–12):Under 2 hours/day, PRIORITIZED AFTER schoolwork/family/chores.
Devices should be locked down as much as possible with parental controls.
No social media.
No devices in bedrooms; shared family spaces only. (Hard with iPads and Gaming)
Teens: Same guidelines for Adults!
Focus on Purpose, Benefits, and Balance.
Ask: “How much time do I want my kids to remember me on my phone?”
Model the same standards:
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