Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings back holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons for live caller coaching sessions that'll change how you think about sex and dating.
A woman married 10 years whose husband won't explore sexually at all—why "I want to try new things" might sound like "what we're doing isn't good enough" to a partner raised in a conservative home.
What "deepthroating" really represents when your partner grew up being told sex was wrong—and the outside-the-bedroom conversation they need to have before anything changes in bed.
A woman terrified about her first date after a breakup because she thinks the sex will be "unwilling"—the breathwork practice that gets you out of your anxious mind and into your confident body.
Why a first date is just a "warm-up" to see if you're having fun, not an audition for marriage—and how to tell if someone's worth seeing naked just by watching how they treat wait staff.
The reframe that takes all the pressure off dating: ditch the checklist, get present in your body, and remember you're the gatekeeper with all the power.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
2:11 - Growing Up Conservative: How Family Beliefs Kill Your Sex Life
6:39 - The Compliment Sandwich: How to Ask for What You Want
9:46 - Antidepressants Killed Our Sex Life: Now What?
12:44 - Medical Issues vs. Sexual Needs: Finding Balance
16:03 - The Power of Hope: Changing Your Sexual Dynamic Instantly
19:03 - Beyond Penetration: Alternative Ways to Stay Connected
24:57 - Dating After Great Sex: Overcoming Fear of Bad Partners
29:44 - First Date Anxiety: Embodiment Practice Before Going Out
34:47 - Stop Performing on Dates: Be Your Authentic Self Instead
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Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships.
A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change.
The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away.
A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy.
Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal.
The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you).
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)
8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know
10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk
15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?
17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation
21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish
23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?
25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker
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Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years
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Why Your Partner Refuses Intimacy (And What To Do)
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Why Couples Never Talk About Sex (And How to Start)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.
A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion.
Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells.
A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:17 - When to Have "The Sex Talk" in a New Relationship
3:26 - Building Sexual Anticipation vs. Rushing Into Sex
5:25 - How to Talk About Sex Before You've Had Sex
8:14 - Faking Orgasms: Why It Hurts Both Partners
11:31 - Reader Question: Navigating Painful Sex & Communication
16:42 - Creating Safety When Past Experiences Were Painful
20:38 - The Importance of Lube and Going Slow
24:16 - Reader Question: Coming Out as Bisexual in Marriage
28:36 - Starting Conversations About Desires & Fantasies
30:38 - Living Your Sexual Truth at Any Age
32:24 - Practical Steps for Difficult Conversations
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