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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.
Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.
The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.
A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.
The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.
The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.
Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction
1:26 – Sex Experts Lose Desire Too
7:24 – The Pleasure Thieves
17:53 – Why It's Okay to Stop During Sex
20:20 – Cold Feet and Orgasms
25:50 – The Role of Shame
30:17 – Navigating Social Media Censorship
35:41 – Teaching Kids About Sex
38:47 – The Patriarchy Problem
39:49 – Closing
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Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman to dismantle the fairy tales keeping you stuck in your dating life.
Why your mile-long partner checklist (six feet tall, specific job, perfect abs) is sabotaging your search for real compatibility—and the question you should ask instead: "How do I want to feel?"
The difference between dating for superficial traits versus shared life goals—why wanting a yoga partner matters way less than wanting the freedom to pursue your own interests in a relationship.
A caller who's getting ghosted on dating apps wonders if women have too many options—the real reason your profile isn't working, and it has nothing to do with competition.
The "three C's" that'll transform your dating profile overnight: strategic color to stand out, context that tells your story, and character that shows who you really are (no sunglasses photos—we need to see your eyes).
Why "chemistry at first sight" is actually lust, and you can't know if you love someone the minute you look into their eyes—the three-date rule that gives real connection time to build.
The reframe that takes the pressure off: stop trying to be liked and start being upfront about what you want—it'll filter out the wrong people and attract your actual match.
Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction
1:21 – F The Fairytale
13:00 – The Dating Tracker Strategy That Changes Everything
22:48 – Values Over Political Labels in Dating
25:48 – The Chemistry Myth
34:15 – How to Know If You're Coming On Too Strong
45:07 – Dating Profile Photos: The Three C's
47:35 – Five Quickie Questions
49:17 – Closing and Where to Find Damona
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Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings back holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons for live caller coaching sessions that'll change how you think about sex and dating.
A woman married 10 years whose husband won't explore sexually at all—why "I want to try new things" might sound like "what we're doing isn't good enough" to a partner raised in a conservative home.
What "deepthroating" really represents when your partner grew up being told sex was wrong—and the outside-the-bedroom conversation they need to have before anything changes in bed.
A woman terrified about her first date after a breakup because she thinks the sex will be "unwilling"—the breathwork practice that gets you out of your anxious mind and into your confident body.
Why a first date is just a "warm-up" to see if you're having fun, not an audition for marriage—and how to tell if someone's worth seeing naked just by watching how they treat wait staff.
The reframe that takes all the pressure off dating: ditch the checklist, get present in your body, and remember you're the gatekeeper with all the power.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
2:11 - Growing Up Conservative: How Family Beliefs Kill Your Sex Life
6:39 - The Compliment Sandwich: How to Ask for What You Want
9:46 - Antidepressants Killed Our Sex Life: Now What?
12:44 - Medical Issues vs. Sexual Needs: Finding Balance
16:03 - The Power of Hope: Changing Your Sexual Dynamic Instantly
19:03 - Beyond Penetration: Alternative Ways to Stay Connected
24:57 - Dating After Great Sex: Overcoming Fear of Bad Partners
29:44 - First Date Anxiety: Embodiment Practice Before Going Out
34:47 - Stop Performing on Dates: Be Your Authentic Self Instead
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Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships.
A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change.
The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away.
A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy.
Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal.
The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you).
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)
8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know
10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk
15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?
17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation
21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish
23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?
25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker
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