Sex With Emily

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Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a relationship where desire just doesn't match up — these are the questions people carry around for years without knowing where to take them. Let's talk about real listener questions on orgasm habits, how to restart intimacy after illness, navigating power dynamics in a relationship, and what to actually do when your partner seems completely uninterested in sex.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 Real Sex Questions You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask

2:00 Q: I Can Only Orgasm One Way. Can I Change That?

3:47 How to Retrain Your Body for Full-Body Orgasms

6:23 The Breathwork Practice That Changes Everything

8:30 Q: How Do We Restart Our Sex Life After Six Months Off?

10:19 How to Ease Back In Without Pressure or Awkwardness

12:43 Q: I Want to Switch Roles But My Partner Won't

14:27 Top and Bottom Dynamics and Masculine Feminine Energy

17:05 How Age and Experience Shape Power in Relationships

19:17 Q: My Wife Just Wants It Over Quickly. What Do I Do?

21:00 When Culture and Shame Shut Down Desire

23:25 Sexual Health Is Overall Health. Here Is Why That Matters
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If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the lack of sex. It’s the questions that start creeping in—is she still attracted to me? Did I do something wrong? Why does every touch now feel loaded?

Let’s talk about what actually happens to men emotionally and relationally when a marriage goes sexless, and what you can do to start changing things without making it worse.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro0:40 – What a mismatched-desire marriage feels like1:15 – Listener question: no sex in almost a year2:35 – Effect 1: You start taking it personally3:35 – Why this hits men especially hard5:00 – Effect 2: You pull away, even from affection6:35 – Taking sex off the table to rebuild touch7:35 – Effect 3: You feel disconnected and lonely8:10 – Seeking outside validation9:15 – What do you actually know vs. what are you assuming10:20 – Mismatched desire is common: building a growth mindset around sex

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What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom?

Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — plus I’m answering your questions on sexual incompatibility, rebuilding your sex drive after having a baby, reigniting a stalled marriage, and reclaiming your sexuality after a relationship that made you feel unseen.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Let’s talk about the questions men are too embarrassed to ask about sex… because most of what men learn about sex comes from porn, from friends who are also just figuring it out, or from nothing at all. And then they spend years wondering if they’re broken, performing wrong, or missing something everyone else seems to already know. In this episode I’m answering seven of the most common questions I get from men, and I promise you are not the only one who has been too embarrassed to ask.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro: the questions men are too embarrassed to ask0:55 – Is it bad to masturbate every day?2:39 – How long is sex actually supposed to last?3:53 – Why most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone4:46 – Why you can lose your erection even when you’re attracted to her6:55 – Should you worry if you don’t wake up with an erection?8:11 – Why you can orgasm alone but not with a partner10:34 – If you finish before your partner, is sex over?12:45 – Send in the questions you’ve been too embarrassed to ask13:19 – How to tell your partner you’re anxious about sex15:10 – Why perfect sex isn’t the goal: presence, communication, and patience
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Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, including the modifications that turned me from a 69 skeptic into someone who actually gets it. I'm also answering your oral sex questions, from what to do when size makes a blowjob feel impossible to the listener who discovered the most unexpected erogenous zone of her life mid-session. If you've ever written off 69 or felt like you were doing oral sex wrong, this one is going to change some things for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT:

Best Sex Ever Tour: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/events⁠

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:37 Why People Love and Hate 69

03:30 What Research Says About Giving Oral Sex and Happiness

05:00 How to Be a Better Giver in the 69 Position

07:30 Your Hands Are Your Best Friend in 69

09:00 How to Actually Receive Pleasure While Giving

11:00 Mindful Masturbation as a Tool for Better Receiving

13:00 The Sideways 69 and the Power 69

15:30 How to Stop Getting in Your Own Head During Oral

18:00 Question 1: I Discovered My Ear Is an Erogenous Zone Mid Session

21:00 The Science Behind Extra Genital Erogenous Zones

23:00 Question 2: How Do I Give Oral to a Much Larger Penis

25:00 Hands Lube and Permission to Mix It Up

27:00 The Only Rule That Actually Matters in Oral Sex
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