The Dr Vonda Show

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Today I want to talk with you about how women age, and why so many of us feel surprised by what happens to our bodies in midlife.
 
This is not an episode about chasing youth or fearing wrinkles. It is about understanding why women are not taught how longevity really works in our bodies, and why the years leading up to menopause matter far more than we were ever told.

I have learned, through decades of caring for women as an orthopedic sports surgeon, that we are not simply smaller versions of men. Our biology has often been overlooked in longevity research, even though estrogen quietly influences nearly every system that determines how strong, mobile, and independent we remain as we age.

I want you to know this. Aging is not something that happens to you. It is something you can shape. With the right information, a few consistent habits, and a deeper understanding of your own body, you can build strength and resilience that carry you forward for decades.
 
If you have ever felt like your body changed without warning, like the advice that once worked no longer does, or like aging has been framed as something to fear, this episode is for you.
My hope is that this conversation leaves you feeling informed, supported, and empowered to age with strength, clarity, and confidence.
 
Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Female Longevity
02:06 The Unique Aging Process of Women
03:19 Critical Data Points on Female Longevity
07:08 10 Essential Principles of Female Longevity
07:56 The Critical Decade: 35-45
09:27 The Role of Estrogen in Longevity
11:27 Body Composition Changes in Midlife
12:45 Mitochondria and Female Energy
13:49 Muscle Strength and Longevity
14:55 Cardiovascular Fitness and Lifespan
15:36 Brain Health and Estrogen
16:37 Inflammation and Aging
17:56 Modifying Biological Age
19:42 Conclusion: Designing an Unbreakable Future
 
🦴 Unbreakable Bone Health
Dr. Vonda's Unbreakable Bone Health formula supports bone density and strength using patented ingredients backed by 30 years of clinical research.
🛒 Shop now → https://shop.drvondawright.com/ 
 
📖 Unbreakable: A Woman's Guide to Aging with Power
Dr. Vonda Wright's newest book, Unbreakable, is a bold guide for women ready to redefine what aging looks and feels like. Blending cutting‑edge science with real‑world strategies, it helps you build strength, resilience, and momentum through every decade of life. Discover how to turn aging into your greatest advantage and live with power, purpose, and vitality.
👉 Learn more or get your copy: https://theunbreakablebook.com
 
About Dr. Vonda Wright:
I'm Vonda Wright, an orthopedic sports surgeon and women's healthy‑aging expert. For 20 years I've helped athletes and everyday women protect their joints, build muscle, and extend their health span. Here you'll get science-backed strategies to age with power, so you can keep doing what you love for decades to come.
 
Connect with Dr. Vonda Wright:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvondawright/ 
Read Dr. Vonda Wright's Substack: https://drvondawright.substack.com/ 
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvondawright 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vonda-wright-md-ms-2803374 
Website: http://www.drvondawright.com/

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There's a moment many women reach in midlife where things don't feel wrong but they don't feel right either. Digestion changes. Bloating appears out of nowhere. Sleep feels lighter. Inflammation lingers. And no one ever told us these systems might all be connected.

I sat down with Cynthia Thurlow, a nurse practitioner and intermittent fasting expert, to talk about a topic that is still vastly underexplored in women's health: the gut microbiome during perimenopause and menopause.
 
So many women are told their digestive symptoms, inflammation, mood changes, or recurrent infections are just "part of aging." What Cynthia makes clear is that these experiences are deeply rooted in physiology and that when we understand what's happening, we're no longer powerless. This conversation matters because it replaces dismissal with clarity and fear with context.

We examine how this topic shows up in daily life:
- Why declining estrogen affects gut barrier integrity, immune response, and inflammation
- How "leaky gut" can contribute to bone loss, autoimmune risk, and metabolic changes
- The connection between gut health, mood, anxiety, and neurotransmitter signaling
- Why fiber and short-chain fatty acids become more important in perimenopause and menopause
- How fermented foods can support microbiome diversity and recovery after stress, illness, or antibiotics
- The gut–vaginal microbiome connection and why improving one can support the other
- How chronic stress and unprocessed trauma can accelerate hormonal aging and menopause timing
 
About Cynthia Thurlow:
Cynthia Thurlow, NP is a nurse practitioner, intermittent fasting expert, and educator specializing in women's health, hormones, and longevity. Her work bridges functional and conventional medicine, with a focus on helping women understand the physiological changes of perimenopause and menopause through a science-based, compassionate lens.
 
📘 Book - The Menopause Gut
Balance Your Microbiome to Reclaim Your Health in Midlife and Beyond
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/777129/the-menopause-gut-by-cynthia-thurlow-np/
 
Connect with Cynthia Thurlow:
Website: https://www.cynthiathurlow.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cynthia_thurlow_/
Twitter: https://x.com/_cynthiathurlow
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CynthiaThurlow
 
Timestamps
 
00:00 Intro
01:30 What the Gut Microbiome Really Is (and Why It Matters for Whole-Body Health)
05:52 How Perimenopause Triggers Early Changes in the Gut Microbiome
15:23 Practical Gut Health Tips: Diet, Sugar, Sleep, and Inflammation
20:19 Alcohol, Emotional Awareness, and Its Impact on the Microbiome
26:03 Food as Comfort: Emotional Eating, Reflection, and Gut Health
27:52 Vaginal Microbiome Explained: Its Connection to Gut Health
30:26 Stress, Cortisol, Bone Health, and the Gut-Brain Connection
33:11 How Trauma Creates Long-Term Effects on the Body and Microbiome
40:28 Processing Trauma in Healthcare Workers and Physical Health Outcomes
45:02 Healing the Gut Through Awareness and Lifestyle Changes
 
🦴 Unbreakable Bone Health
Dr. Vonda's Unbreakable Bone Health formula supports bone density and strength using patented ingredients backed by 30 years of clinical research.
🛒 Shop now → https://shop.drvondawright.com/ 
 
📖 Unbreakable: A Woman's Guide to Aging with Power
Dr. Vonda Wright's newest book, Unbreakable, is a bold guide for women ready to redefine what aging looks and feels like. Blending cutting‑edge science with real‑world strategies, it helps you build strength, resilience, and momentum through every decade of life. Discover how to turn aging into your greatest advantage and live with power, purpose, and vitality.
👉 Learn more or get your copy: https://theunbreakablebook.com

About Dr. Vonda Wright:
I'm Vonda Wright, an orthopedic sports surgeon and women's healthy‑aging expert. For 20 years I've helped athletes and everyday women protect their joints, build muscle, and extend their health span. Here you'll get science-backed strategies to age with power, so you can keep doing what you love for decades to come.

Connect with Dr. Vonda Wright:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvondawright/
Read Dr. Vonda Wright's Substack: https://drvondawright.substack.com/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvondawright
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vonda-wright-md-ms-2803374
Website: http://www.drvondawright.com/

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There's a quiet shift many women notice in midlife that rarely gets talked about in the doctor's office, changes in their mouth. Gums that feel more sensitive. Teeth that suddenly seem fragile. Dryness, inflammation, or dental issues that appear despite "doing everything right."

I sat down with Dr. Carlos Melendez, a general dentist and practice owner, to talk about what really happens to oral health during perimenopause and menopause, and why women are so often left without explanation when changes begin.

Women are frequently told that dental issues are about hygiene alone, or that worsening gum or tooth problems are just "bad luck." This conversation matters because it reframes oral health as part of whole-body health. When women understand the hormonal and physiological drivers behind these changes, they're empowered to protect not just their smiles, but their overall health as they age.
 
We examine how this topic shows up in daily life:
- How hormonal shifts in menopause affect gum tissue, bone, and oral inflammation
- Why dry mouth becomes more common and why it matters for tooth and gum health
- The connection between estrogen loss, bone density, and jawbone health
- How chronic inflammation in the mouth can impact whole-body health
- Why routine dental changes in midlife deserve deeper evaluation, not dismissal
- How preventive dental care needs to evolve during perimenopause and menopause
- Why collaboration between medical and dental care is essential for aging well

About Dr. Carlos Melendez:
Dr. Carlos Melendez is a general dentist and practice owner with extensive experience caring for adult patients across all life stages. His work focuses on preventive care, patient education, and understanding how systemic health directly impacts oral health, especially in midlife and beyond.

Connect with Dr. Carlos Melendez:
Website: https://www.nonasmiles.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlos-melendez-473523178/

Timestamps (will update once final draft is available)

00:00:00 Intro
00:01:30 Why Dental Health Changes in Midlife
00:05:10 Hormones, Gums, and Oral Inflammation
00:09:40 Estrogen Loss and Jawbone Health
00:14:20 Dry Mouth, Saliva, and Tooth Protection
00:18:30 Gum Disease and Systemic Inflammation
00:24:10 Preventive Dental Care During Menopause
00:29:40 What Dentists Wish Women Knew About Menopause
00:35:20 Advocating for Your Oral Health
00:41:10 Practical Tips for Maintaining Oral Health
00:47:21 Sleep Apnea: Diagnosis and Treatment
 
🦴 Unbreakable Bone Health
Dr. Vonda's Unbreakable Bone Health formula supports bone density and strength using patented ingredients backed by 30 years of clinical research.
🛒 Shop now → https://shop.drvondawright.com/ 
 
📖 Unbreakable: A Woman's Guide to Aging with Power
Dr. Vonda Wright's newest book, Unbreakable, is a bold guide for women ready to redefine what aging looks and feels like. Blending cutting‑edge science with real‑world strategies, it helps you build strength, resilience, and momentum through every decade of life. Discover how to turn aging into your greatest advantage and live with power, purpose, and vitality.
👉 Learn more or get your copy: https://theunbreakablebook.com
 
About Dr. Vonda Wright:
I'm Vonda Wright, an orthopedic sports surgeon and women's healthy‑aging expert. For 20 years I've helped athletes and everyday women protect their joints, build muscle, and extend their health span. Here you'll get science-backed strategies to age with power, so you can keep doing what you love for decades to come.
 
Connect with Dr. Vonda Wright:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvondawright/ 
Read Dr. Vonda Wright's Substack: https://drvondawright.substack.com/ 
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvondawright 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vonda-wright-md-ms-2803374 
Website: http://www.drvondawright.com/

Get Dr. Vonda's latest insights on strength, bone health, longevity, and aging with power delivered straight to your inbox. Join her free health & longevity newsletter here: https://www.drvondawright.com/resources/aging-longevity

This is a conversation many women don't realize they need until something starts to feel off.

I sat down with Dr. Sara Reardon, a pelvic floor physical therapist known as The Vagina Whisperer, to talk about a part of women's health that quietly affects how we move, train, recover, and age. It is rarely discussed until symptoms begin to interfere with daily life.
We explore the life stages when pelvic health is most vulnerable, including pregnancy, postpartum recovery, athletic training, and menopause, times when women are often told to accept changes without explanation. Sara offers clarity on how the pelvic floor adapts through these transitions and how early, thoughtful support can make a real difference. This episode provides perspective, reassurance, and a path forward to better understand your body, helping you move more confidently through every stage of life.
We examine how pelvic floor health shows up in daily life:
- How leaking, pain, and pressure reflect coordination issues rather than personal failure
- Why athletes and active women experience pelvic floor symptoms more often than expected
- How breathing patterns and pressure management affect strength, stability, and comfort
- What pregnancy and postpartum recovery actually demand from the pelvic floor
- How menopause changes tissue health, sensation, and support
- Why pelvic floor care influences longevity, mobility, and confidence as we age

About Dr. Sara Reardon:
Sara Reardon, PT, DPT, also known as The Vagina Whisperer, is a board-certified pelvic floor physical therapist and leading voice in women's pelvic health. With over a decade of clinical experience, she helps women better understand their bodies and address pelvic floor issues across pregnancy, postpartum, athletics, and midlife.
📘 Book - Floored
A Woman's Guide To Pelvic Floor Health At Every Stage
https://bookshop.org/p/books/floored-a-woman-s-guide-to-pelvic-floor-health-at-every-age-and-stage-sara-reardon/09911e60d8d44350
Connect with Dr. Sara Reardon:
Website: http://thevagwhisperer.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.vagina.whisperer/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-reardon-pt/
 
Timestamps
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:55 Why Pelvic Floor Health Is Ignored in Women's Healthcare
00:10:40 Pelvic Floor Myths Women Still Believe
00:16:25 Symptoms Women Are Told to Normalize
00:18:15 Pelvic Floor Therapy During Pregnancy: What to Know
00:24:48 Pelvic Floor Health in Menopause
00:29:08 Empowering the Next Generation
00:31:59 Bathroom Habits That Can Damage Your Pelvic Floor
00:37:28 Do Kegels Actually Work for Pelvic Floor Strength
00:40:26 Simple Pelvic Floor Exercises You Can Do Every Day
00:46:58 How to Advocate for Pelvic Floor Health With Your Doctor


🦴 Unbreakable Bone Health
Dr. Vonda's Unbreakable Bone Health formula supports bone density and strength using patented ingredients backed by 30 years of clinical research.
🛒 Shop now → https://shop.drvondawright.com/ 
📖 Unbreakable: A Woman's Guide to Aging with Power
Dr. Vonda Wright's newest book, Unbreakable, is a bold guide for women ready to redefine what aging looks and feels like. Blending cutting‑edge science with real‑world strategies, it helps you build strength, resilience, and momentum through every decade of life. Discover how to turn aging into your greatest advantage and live with power, purpose, and vitality.
👉 Learn more or get your copy: https://theunbreakablebook.com

About Dr. Vonda Wright:
I'm Vonda Wright, an orthopedic sports surgeon and women's healthy‑aging expert. For 20 years I've helped athletes and everyday women protect their joints, build muscle, and extend their health span. Here you'll get science-backed strategies to age with power, so you can keep doing what you love for decades to come.

Connect with Dr. Vonda Wright:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvondawright/
Read Dr. Vonda Wright's Substack: https://drvondawright.substack.com/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvondawright
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vonda-wright-md-ms-2803374
Website: http://www.drvondawright.com/

Today's conversation is one I believe every woman deserves to hear - regardless of age, stage, or current health status.
I sat down with Meghan Rabbit, an award-winning health journalist and the author of The New Rules for Women's Health, to talk about something many of us feel but rarely name clearly: modern medicine was not designed with women in mind - especially across midlife.
This isn't about blame. And it isn't about distrust of doctors.
It's about understanding the system we are navigating, and learning how to advocate for ourselves within it.
 
Meghan brings a rare perspective to this conversation. She has spent years interviewing hundreds of clinicians and researchers across women's health, brain health, heart disease, menopause, autoimmune conditions, and longevity. What she uncovered is both sobering and empowering: women have been left out of research, diagnostics, and treatment models for decades, but knowledge changes outcomes.
 
In this episode, we talk about why women must become active participants in their own healthcare, not passive recipients. We explore what it means to be the "CEO of your health" - tracking symptoms, preparing for appointments, understanding your body, and engaging in true shared decision-making with your clinicians.
 
We also walk through the body systems where these gaps show up most clearly:

- Why women represent the majority of Alzheimer's cases—and what midlife has to do with brain health
- Why heart disease remains the leading cause of death in women, yet awareness is declining
- How menopause is a neurological transition, not just a hormonal one
- Why autoimmune disease disproportionately affects women—and why answers are still lagging
- How gut health, bone health, hormones, and the brain are deeply interconnected


About Meghan Rabbitt:
Meghan Rabbitt is an award-winning journalist and author of The New Rules of Women's Health: Your Guide to Thriving at Every Age. She specializes in writing about women's health and wellness, and her work has appeared in many national publications, including Women's Health, Oprah Daily, Prevention, Maria Shriver's Sunday Paper, and more. She's known for translating complex medical and scientific topics into clear, actionable information, and for telling stories that help readers better understand their bodies, their health, and themselves. 
 
📘 Book - The New Rules of Women's Health
Your Guide to Thriving at Every Age
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/734289/the-new-rules-of-womens-health-by-meghan-rabbitt-foreword-by-maria-shriver/
 
Website: https://newrulesofwomenshealth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrabbitt
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/meghan-rabbitt-04b80116/
Substack: https://substack.com/@meghanrabbitt

Timestamp:
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:28 The Origin Story of the Women's Health Manifesto
00:03:58 Challenges in Women's Health Research
00:09:30 Empowering Women to Take Charge of Their Health
00:18:37 The Importance of Tracking Symptoms and Shared Decision Making
00:24:44 Brain Health and the Impact of Estrogen
00:29:53 The Importance of Exercise for Brain Health
00:32:08 The Role of Hormones in Heart Health
00:39:42 Autoimmune Diseases and Women's Health
00:45:40 Empowering Women Through Knowledge
00:50:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

🦴 Unbreakable Bone Health
Dr. Vonda's Unbreakable Bone Health formula supports bone density and strength using patented ingredients backed by 30 years of clinical research.
🛒 Shop now: https://shop.drvondawright.com/ 
 
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📖 Unbreakable: A Woman's Guide to Aging with Power
Dr. Vonda Wright's newest book, Unbreakable, is a bold guide for women ready to redefine what aging looks and feels like. Blending cutting‑edge science with real‑world strategies, it helps you build strength, resilience, and momentum through every decade of life. Discover how to turn aging into your greatest advantage and live with power, purpose, and vitality.
👉 Learn more or get your copy: https://theunbreakablebook.com
 
About Dr. Vonda Wright:
I'm Vonda Wright, an orthopedic sports surgeon and women's healthy‑aging expert. For 20 years I've helped athletes and everyday women protect their joints, build muscle, and extend their health span. Here you'll get science-backed strategies to age with power, so you can keep doing what you love for decades to come.
 
Connect with Dr. Vonda Wright:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvondawright
Read Dr. Vonda Wright's Substack: https://drvondawright.substack.com/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvondawright
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vondawrightmd
Website: http://www.drvondawright.com/